What do u think?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy, who was flirting with me jokingly u know what I mean? he was my colleague and we have never spoken with each others until the last year. He really started flirting with in our first conversation. Whatever then he gave me a lot of mixed signals and he added me on snapchat , but we did this snaping back and forth and then we didn’t see each others for like 3 months and we also didn’t stay in touch because we had an argument. I was annoyed at first but then I got over it.
Last week he started a very random conversation and then we started snaping again. Why did he do that? I mean I didn’t take him seriously as he was flirting. Can u help me guys?

Updates

+1 y

To all of u saying why I don’t try talking to him, once our friends asked him and he said that he is just joking around, so that’s why I said he was giving me mixed signals

[Avicenna]

I don't think this guy even knows what he's doing. I'd ask him what's going on.

[Asker]

Well, every time I tried to take him seriously and wanted to talk to him, he showed me that he was really joking around and didn’t mean anything serious. And once, he said that we should go on a date then I asked him if he meant that serious then he told me no and he has been saying since then that I wanted to go on a date with him.

[Billlewis]

I think you should call or text him and ask him what's on his mind.

[Nikki1989]

He is a novel idea, actually talk to him. Remember talking?

[spartan55]

Why don't you actually TALK to him and find out.

[spartan55]

So you are not talking to him based on second hand information. There are no mixed signals, you don't really want to talk to him anyway.

[Asker]

Not that I don’t want to talk to him, but he sometimes flirted with other girls in front of me, which made it sure to me that he is nothing but a womanizer. I really liked him but he gives me the vibes that he is not serious at all.

[spartan55]

He's not your boyfriend... geez... he can only flirt with you? You're being ridiculous.

[spartan55]

You are forming an opinion on things on your head.

[Asker]

No I didn’t mean in that way, but if I really like a guy, I would never flirt with others guys in front of him.

[spartan55]

If you've made up your mind then move on. But it doesn't seem like you gave him any sort of chance.

[Asker]

What do u mean I don’t seem like I gave him any chances? believe me or not, I did. But he just acted like he wad joking and he meant nothing serious

[spartan55]

Maybe he was nervous and joked around to feel more comfortable.

[Asker]

Maybe 🤷🏻‍♀️