What is up if a guy seems interested in you kisses you and wants to sleep with you but always wait for you to take the lead sex wise?

[Solstraale]

I know he has a lot of experience and the first couple of times he practically jumped me but now he's witholding. Doesn't inisiate sex before I've been with him for a while and doesn't jump me but wait for me to touch him? Is he not that into me?

[Anonymous]

Most likely, when women start to act some type of way, or say things then that can be a turn off. If you have said, why does everything have to be sexual? Do you only think with your penis? And you expect him to want to be into you the entire time. That can be a huge turn off.

[loveslongnails]

Greenlighting him that you're wanting sex is a good thing to do. If you aren't showing much interest and he holds back, he's just being cautious and respectful.

[Finchie40]

Have you denied his advances towards you a bunch of times by saying you aren’t in the mood? or told him not now? when he tried to come on to you? If so , he probably feels you aren’t
really into him anymore , so he backed off of you and just waits for you to initiate the first move., Which sadly to say , is a red flag and a bad sign that something is off in your relationship with him , something is missing especially if sex wasn’t an issue before between you both? It can be a few things , He could possibly be cheating on you with someone else , or his is interested in someone else , or he has a hard time trusting you , for a guy not to want to have sex with a girl that he had no issues before is a red flag especially if he is t giving you a valid reason as to why all of a sudden he isn’t coming on to you anymore.

[you_asked]

He initiates sex = rape
You initiate sex = consensual sex


You are dating a smart guy






Enjoy

[nawtee_me]

Break out a strap on and see if he takes the lead from that point on…. lol.

[msc545]

He doesn't want you going metoo on him a year from now or even 20 years from now. It happens.

[Guido]

He wants to see if you want him as badly as he wants you.

[Jerre]

I agree with “you_asked”

[Solstraale]

Don't understand?

[Jerre]

He would be deep inside you if he could

[KrakenAttackin]

He doesn't want to go to prison.

[msc545]

Exactly

[Jmmmfi4]

I DOUBT THAT