I started dating a guy 2/3 weeks ago. I like him and I recently went to his apartment. I noticed that as soon as we got to his room he started to kiss me.
I like kissing him but I wanted to maybe sit and chat a little bit first. So after a while I asked him ‘ can we talk?’ and he sat me up and I said I was abit nervous about doing anything sexual. He said he was nervous too as he’s a virgin and we can just make out for now. Then we started kissing again.
I’m going around to his again tomorrow, and I think he will do the same thing and start kissing me straight away when I get to his room when I want to sit and chat for abit.
I’ll admit I’ve been flirting with him, and I know he likes me for me than sex but I don’t wanna feel rushing into that.
Do any of you get what I mean?😂How can I get us to chat more etc? Thank you for any advice
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I get what you mean. So instead of going to his room suggest you all take a walk outside. You can talk and still spend time together
Is he good at talking and opening up so that you know his feelings and emotions
To be honest we’ve not really opened up to eachother that much yet:(
Not yet? I mean you must want to talk to him about that
Yes I’d deffo like to open up to him
Ok so what’s holding you back? And have you let him know he’s safe to open up and you will not judge?
I don’t know tbh, I mean most times we are physically close he’ll kiss me and so I don’t get a chance. 😅😅
You get a chance. You can decide not to be near him and ask him to see you in public. Even when close can’t you say no when he goes to kiss you?
I feel bad to turn him down😅😅But I will try to open up more when I see him tomorrow. I will try to get him to speak to me before he kisses me
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Id make moves after 2/3 weeks too