A guy is asking me to kiss him instead of kissing me?

[happyfoetus]

Updates

+1 y

isn't it men who understand the mood and take initiative to kiss a women than ask for a kiss from her? And don't you think asking for a kiss (dont confuse it to the consent part to kiss a women) is a turn off?

[ohsheeT]

It depends on the moment there has been many times I would say 85% of the time where I would have the girl right there my hands on her hips standing in front of her and I would say something like I would love to kiss you is it okay but it all depends on that moment and everything else that's going on

But there are also moments to where you know it's okay if you kiss and I wouldn't ask I would just do it in slow slow motion for a minute and then release and then look deep into her eyes and say can I do that again LOL

[slatyb]

That seems a bit odd. Are you dating? When I was dating women made it pretty clear that the wanted to be kissed, and I did.

[Jadebamboo]

He wants you to take initiative. Don’t overthink it by entering a personal philosophical debate about consent.

[spartan55]

What are you both 12?

[DizzyDesii]

Well Pucker Up and Take Initiative

[MementoMori777]

okay thanks for the update

[TrillXHippy]

If you kiss him he’s still kissing you

[DarkWinterNights]

And?

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s post MeToo, guys are cautious. Women need to take some initiative.