Why would he do this? please help was he using me?

[claudia32]

Why would someone ask you to meet up and then when you meet up he asks you to throw something and then while you do it he leaves you there, do you think he should have said something or do you think he does this to everyone? He asked for recommendations before he asked you to throw it out for him

[Oliverlogan263]

That is super lame of that guy! To ask you to meet up, seem interested, then bounce the second you turn your back? Not cool.

Honestly sounds like he may have just been trying to waste your time for some stupid reason. Maybe he gets a kick out of messing with girls? Who knows, guys can be pretty immature sometimes.

But don't even sweat it - his actions say way more about him than you. Chances are he pulls that kinda shady stuff all the time if that's how he acts. You seem nice, don't let one jerk get you down!

My advice would be to just forget about him. Dude clearly isn't worth your time or mental energy. Next time trust your gut if a guy seems sus - you deserve way better treatment.

Keep your head up and keep meeting new people. The right person who sees how awesome you are will come along, I'm sure of it! Don't change a thing, just keep being yourself. His bad vibes aren't a reflection of you at all.

[veganrogue]

Throw something like a ball? Please elaborate.