A question for shy guys - how do you show a girl your interest in her?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I typically don't.

I mean there is obvious change in my behavior. But I'm going to do my best to hide it.

But you're just going to run into me a lot. You can call it stalking if you like🤣 I'm not, I'm trying to make myself more visible in her world. More likely a verbal exchange happens without me necessarily initiating it.

Of course this is all typed from the perspective of a 16 year old me. I'm not shy now. I might be reserved and at times unwilling to put myself out there but it's not due to shyness anymore.

As a woman though I have a hard time believing this isn't a rhetorical question and you don't already know this about guys who are shy.

[killergoku999]

I believe she will never know (youth days). It happen to me, but with age, things changed. Try to chat or begin a conversation, than showing interest by trying to chat more often. Try to invite her to do things alone, to go cinema, lunch a coffee

[MysticDevice]

Quite unsuccessfully.

By making reasons to be around her.

"Oh, I just happened to be looking for an object that just so happens to right next to, or very near you"

Lame and dorky moves like that

[JacobJordan]

I make a dumb joke and hope she laughs or responds with an equally dumb joke.

[Yannae]

I just hang out with her often. And I am there if she needs me.

[Anonymous]

I'm really bad at. I usually get really shy.

[Shy_Steve]

That's exactly the problem, We have no idea how to do it without looking Weird or Creepy.

[InspireGlow678]

I glance at her and try not to sound awkward if/when I try to talk with her.

[Anonymous]

I take the time to get to know her, and be patient.