Would you agree that women can forgive their husband's lover but not the reverse?

[Jackblue]

It seems that women can, at least if the lover didn't know she was married, forgive her and possibly even be her friend. Men on the other hand can't really do so even if they know their wives lied to the other men about being married. To be emasculated in such a way by another man is not something we can pardon even if it was by accident, even in this day and age honor demands we continue to see him as a foe. We don't necessarily seek revenge, but we are not going to have a beer with that guy.

[IslaTheWitch]

I wouldn't blame the other woman; the decision would be made by my husband.

[Jackblue]

exactly, that is my point that wives sometimes (not always) but sometimes can forgive the other woman, but men find it much harder to forgive the other man

[IslaTheWitch]

there is NOTHING to forgive. She wouldn't make a decision for my husband, right? It's just a logic.

[Jackblue]

Forgiveness doesn't always imply wrongdoing.

[IslaTheWitch]

This is like you all just want us to hate and forgive this lady. But you know, she just tried her chances, and this bastard-husband made a wrong call, so sorry the whole fault is his. Period.

[Jackblue]

I never said that that is what I wanted.

[Billlewis]

I respectfully disagree, but that's just me.

[boggboss]

Nope plenty of men can lol we ain't a hivemind that think as one