Guys, if your girlfriend tells you that a guy at work keeps asking her sexual questions, how do you feel and what would you do?

[Anonymous]

1) How do you feel?

2) What would you do?

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Some questions that the guy asks her:
- Do you wear bra at home?
- Are you submissive or dominant in bed?
- He talked to he about sex/porn etc etc

How do you feel about those questions?

[SeymourBill420]

Well, if my woman came home and told me that. I would ask her what you said in Return to him. And then I would assume that she enjoys this attention because of she did not, then she would have told him so and then he would have stopped.

And if he did not stop and respect her. Then I would just have to give him a call at work and then have a little chat with him. Decent conversation depending on how his attitude gets. But I would start out the conversation very calmly and I would ask him not to do that to my woman because it makes her feel uncomfortable and then I would ask him why he disrespected her by continuing to do it after she said stop.

Now, if she did not tell him stop, then I would be a little confused on the topic especially if she told me about it. But I would definitely start out the conversation very gently, and see where he takes it he has no business getting angry. He definitely should not have attitude with me. But, people often nowadays have attitude for no reason or because they did something wrong. So it depends on him. And I would let him know that he doesn't want me to come down there. but that would be in the future if he just hangs up on me and doesn't hear what I have to say, then I may either give it some time and see if he continues to do it. Or I might go down there and just give him a personal message. And then embarrass him in front of his coworkers.

[Tim2nice]

I’d tell him to stop it and if he doesn’t I’d report him to his superior or HR. I’m a horny guy but I’d never make sexual remarks or advances on a coworker unless I got sex vibes from her. Still, I’d ask her to talk outside of work about that if she wishes so.

[Ms_Facesitter]

My boyfriend is probably not going to like that, so to avoid having him doubting me, I'd get the colleague reported or fired.

[Altheavas]

Wow, that’s sexual harassment! Report to HR.
How’s that any of a coworker’s business. Eew!

[AviatorTom]

She and I would have an intimate discussion, where I would advise her to ignore this guy, stay away from him ss much as possible. If he asks such questions in the future, tell him that's none of his business, that you are reporting him to HR, and then do it.

[boggboss]

I would tell her not to entertain it and if he continued report it

[Asker]

I see… For example, he asked her sexual questions such as below:

- Do you wear bra at home?
- Are you submissive or dominant in bed?
- He talked to her about sex/porn
Etc etc

[Asker]

How do you feel about those questions?

[boggboss]

I would feel its inappropriate and be annoyed

[aceleon]

if there was no God, i would just go and tear him apart.

but there is, so i would either go bust him at the work and beat him or if i am not interested in dealing with law, i would ambush him in a night and either cut his genitalias myself or pay someone else to do it if i really wanna make sure i wouldn't get arrested for it.

either way he is either losing a couple of bones or his worthless toothpick or his life.

[KrakenAttackin]

@aceleon. Hold on bro, the guys are just being guys. SHE needs to net a boundary with these guys first. If they don't respect the boundary that is a different story.

[aceleon]

@KrakenAttackin sorry but i'm not a very tolerant person (infact i am against tolerating anything) she should do it yes but why risk it with left him or his manhood alive? i doubt anyone will miss a low life like this and even so if it is not a kid or a mother i don't give a fuck she should raise her son better.

[KrakenAttackin]

@aceleon. There are two sides to every story. Women love to create drama where there is none.

[aceleon]

@KrakenAttackin so by your logic, i should get rid of her too? sounds good to me.

[KrakenAttackin]

@aceleon. I am just saying women love to make men jealous as part of shit testing. Have you ever seen women provoke fights in a bar to get their man jacked up? It isn't pretty.

[nudeNhorny]

I think it's better if you make it clear to him that it doesn't make you feel comfortable or just ignore him so he stops doing this.
Bringing your boyfriend into it might cause an issue and end up with a fight.

[Asker]

What do you think of the questions above that he has asked her?

[nudeNhorny]

I don't think there's anything wrong with them if you have that close friendship with this guy and you are comfortable with answering these questions, otherwise it's inappropriate and relevant for reporting to the management.
It's up to you in the end how you see these questions.

[nawtee_me]

It would depend on her answers. If she doesn’t answer at all and he keeps asking then I might get a little upset. However if she did answer then she better have told him the truth because I don’t put up with lying.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Ask how her much longer she plans on letting that go on.

[riverrat3]

If it makes you uncomfortable, have a witness tell him to stop. If her does not stop take that witness to the boss and report him

[OddBeMe]

I’d say it’s prob an immature guy who feels relaxed around her. Perhaps thinks he’s flirting.

I’d advise she step back slowly and transition to hello only. But slowly.

[exitseven]

If he kept it up I might cone by after work and strengthen him out.

[OtterMan68]

Tell her to report it to management ASAP! If management doesn't do anything, then have her consult a lawyer.

[spartan55]

If the coworker keeps asking multiple inappropriate questions then the boyfriend needs a different girlfriend.

[Asker]

Why does he need different girlfriend?

[spartan55]

Because his girlfriend is allowing it to happen and not shutting it down.

[msc545]

Good response.

[Anonymous]

Well first I would assess why she is saying this to me. Then I'd ask her what she wants from me? What does she want me to do.

[Ironic_Method]

Tell her to report it to HR?

[boobliker]

she should go to HR report it first

[wiltingrosepetal]

So if this app was a workplace

[jahaims]

If he keeps asking she isn't shutting it down.

[Asker]

What do you mean she isn’t shutting it down?

[Fireguy17]

I would trust her to do the right thing.

[AmeerX]

Tell her to quit working there.

[Asker]

Why quit working there? To such extent?

[AmeerX]

I just don't like drama. Why make it an everyday thing?
Sooner or later when she gets upset with me she will jump off with him. What do you expect from your boyfriend to be happy about it?
And how can something like a guy hitting on a taken girl go sexual. It must have been sometime

[RedInnocent68]

Tease her mercilessly about it. 🤔😂

[InspireGlow678]

I would feel he's competing or something.

[Asker]

Competing for what?

[InspireGlow678]

For my girlfriend

[InspireGlow678]

If I had one

[Asker]

What do you think of the questions he asked above?

[InspireGlow678]

Well, they're pretty intrusive/intimate. I think he definitely asks those questions because he fantasizes about you and thinks about you when he masturbates. He's thinking of your body during sex.

[noohair]

I would tell her to report it to HR

[spierjames]

I would just ingore him