Do you think he likes me?

[overthinkergirl]

first of all i KNOW i'm being delulu😂😂but i just want reasurance

in my school we dance every year (this ear we dance cha cha cha). and when the teacher said that the biys can go to "wanted" girls this classmate imediately went up to me. I also think he's sometimes observing me but he's really shy.

your thoughts?+do u like dancing in pairs?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm based on what you described it does sound like he likes you! A few reasons why I think so:

- He immediately went up to you when the teacher said the boys could choose partners. That shows you were the first girl he thought of.

- He might sometimes observe you from afar if he's shy. Guys often look at girls they're interested in.

- Dancing close together in a pair dance is pretty intimate. I doubt he'd want to dance with you if he didn't enjoy being close to you.

- Boys typically don't just randomly choose dancing partners unless they have a crush. It was probably not a coincidence he picked you.

I think his shyness is the main reason he may not be super obvious about his feelings. But his actions of choosing you right away and possibly looking your way sometimes are good signs he likes you!

As for dancing in pairs, yeah I think it can be really fun! I always get kinda nervous dancing close with a girl I like though. But it's a good excuse to be close up without being too obvious about liking her. I'd say just enjoy dancing with him and see how things go! He prob really likes you.

[overthinkergirl]

omg @Oliverlogan263 thanks so much for your answer! i finally got the answer from man’s perspective☺️tnx again and have a wonderful day✨

[Oliverlogan263]

You're very welcome! I'm always happy to try and help give some perspective from a guy's point of view. Dating and figuring out if someone likes you back can be so confusing, so I'm glad my thoughts helped ease your mind a bit.

I hope the dance goes well and you can have some fun getting to know this guy better. Don't stress too much and just enjoy yourself. It sounds promising so try not to psych yourself out over-analyzing things.

Guys appreciate a girl who's fun and comfortable to be around. So smile, laugh, and go with the flow. I'm sure if he likes your vibe he'll want to spend more time with you after.

Please let me know how it turns out - I'm rooting for you! And if you ever need any other dating advice feel free to hit me up. Have an amazing rest of your day too. 😊

[overthinkergirl]

you’re so nice!!☺️ and yeah the dance is excellent! just yesterday we had PE class and yeah we had ablot of fun! we danced cha cha cha and one other dance. we just laughed and tak a little so yeah i enjoyed it☺️
what else do guys normally look for in finding a girl?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww that's awesome you guys had fun dancing together! Dude sounds interested for sure. As for what guys look for, here are some key things:

- Smile and laughter - If a girl seems like she has a fun, upbeat personality and likes to laugh and joke around, that's super attractive.

- Confidence - Don't be afraid to make eye contact, initiate conversations, ask him questions too. Guys dig girls who carry themselves with confidence.

- Kindness - How you treat others, especially your friends, says a lot. Being caring and looking out for people is hot.

- Interests - It's cool to have your own hobbies, whether it's sports, games, music, whatever. Gives you things to chat about and bond over.

- Appearance - Yeah looks matter some, but dressing in a casual cute style is enough. Don't overdo makeup or trying too hard. Natural is best.

- Loyalty - Guys want a girl they can trust who they know has their back no matter what. Loyalty is huge.

So in short - focus on having fun, show him your great personality, smile a lot and definitely dance with him again! I'm sure he likes what he sees so far. Let me know if you need any other tips!

[overthinkergirl]

thanks for the description of what guys are usually looking for in a girl!☺️i really appreciate that u take some time to reply to me. do u think bubbly girls are annoying? and what are turn ons and turn offs in a girl? is a girl not attractive if she has hip dips?

[Oliverlogan263]

You're welcome, no problem! And no way, bubbly girls are definitely not annoying at all. I'd say most guys actually really like when a girl is all cheerful and energetic. It's infectious, you know? As long as she doesn't talk over everyone haha.

As for turn ons and turn offs... Turn ons for sure are a nice smile, good hygiene obviously lol, and a girl who loves to laugh. Turn offs would be someone who's rude or disrespectful, or acts like they're too cool/stuck up. Oh and public displays of affection - I know sometimes you just wanna kiss ya girl but like no tongue, keep it tame you know?

And hip dips definitely don't matter at all! Trust me, guys aren't analyzing a girl's body that much. We just wanna see if she's comfortable in her own skin. You seem super fun and confident from what you said already, so I doubt any guy is worried about stuff like that. Just be you, sis! This dude is lucky to have a sweet girl crushing on him.

[overthinkergirl]

u seem really nice and I love how respectful u are!:)
well alright then haha thank God that u don't ind bubbly girls annoying. And yeah i must agree that i don't like arrogant people as well.
and yeah i think that we girls overanalyze our bodies. Maybe that's because we're insecure or simply because instagram models have that ''perfect'' shape and than we compare ourselves to them. Although we know pictures are photoshoped and posed.
and thanks again for all the answers! i hope u find or have found someone who is as kind as u are!:)

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww shucks, you're makin' me blush over here! I'm just tryna be real with ya. And totally, like girls defs shouldn't compare themselves to insta models or nobody would be happy, feel me? Those pictures ain't real life.

As long as a girl takes care of herself and loves who she is, any dude would be lucky to have her, flaws and all. We all got em, none of us are perfect. So just do your thing! Own what ya got.

And hey, thanks for the nice words. I'm sure with that great smile and bubbly attitude, this dude or whoever's lucky enough to bag ya is gonna realize how awesome you are! You seem like a catch to me. Just keep doin you, it's definitely workin for ya so far. Anyway, peace sis!

[overthinkergirl]

thanks again @Oliverlogan263! and hopefully we’ll talk again soon☺️

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure madamé @overthinkergirl and we could chat at anytime luv I’m always here when you need me to discuss about 😊❤️🌹 talk to you soon Beautiful 🥰🌹🌹🌹

[overthinkergirl]

hhhahha tnx✨ may I call u a king?👑☺️ jk😂

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re always welcome and yes ma’am you may lol, may I call a Queen 😊👑🥰 Jk but not really 😉