Why would a dad keep lying about coming to see child/children?

[Anonymous]

Additional details- He doesn’t say why he didn’t show up and has been doing this for months and doesn’t check up on child at all.

He’s a deadbeat

He just doesn’t want to be around and involved

He’s sneaking around with a woman and spending his time with her instead

He’s just busy

[MemeSupreme]

my dad's like that and I've just accepted that it's nothing personal but it's the way he is

like he don't mind hanging out but i gotta take the initiative to see him. it's like he cares but don't care at the same time. ik thats frustrating for you all tho and it's bullshit you have to deal with it

[Miah04]

All i can say is. Everyone can have a child, but not everyone should.

Some people just don't have it in them to do right by their children

[slatyb]

Could easily bee none of the above - he's ashamed of his behavior and is afraid to answer the questions his child may ask.

[KrakenAttackin]

You chose poorly for a sperm donor.

[Danny_dan92]

He doesn’t want too