My husband to be sent me a collar choker with his name in huge letters. why?

[Anonymous]

he told me he wants me to think of him when i wear it and for others to know im his. keep in mind i don’t know anyone he knows yet. i’m going to marry and move in with him in a month or two.

we are long distance now.

[The_Sexpert]

Thanks for the A2A, Sexpert here

This is an obvious sign that he is into male domination.. I guess both inside and outside bed

He gets a sexual arousal from female submission.. in porn industry we call it "Femsub" or "Maledom"

How the man wants to dominate the female varies for different maledom followers... he seems to get excited by the fact that he "owns" you.. the collar is similar to a "dog collar" that the dog's owner uses

However it is not recommended to carry on if you are not into these or you are repulsive to this.. even though I am dominant , I am not a fan of such extreme maledom

Good luck to you

[Asker]

thank you. i like being owned and controlled. i’m not a confident feminist type. i guess i just wonder when he wants me to wear the collar cause if i always wear it in public people might just look at him or me funny?

[boggboss]

Because he likes the feeling of owning u

[Asker]

why?

[boggboss]

Why would I know why that's somyhing he likes u tell me lol he is your partner

[Asker]

he likes control. i can’t relate. i like being dominated. since you’re a bloke maybe you understand his desires.

[boggboss]

Nope im not someone that feels the need to control my partner

It seems u already know the why tho so what more are u looking for other then its clearly a turn on for him to have that control

[Asker]

i want him turned on