Would it be cringe to call him my future husband?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for ~4 years, and have lived together for about 3. We both very much love each other and see each other in future plans. I have told him there is no need for any formal proposal because we are going to get married, so there’s no need to ask or do anything special. I want to wait at least a couple of years when I’ll have graduated and we have the financial flexibility to plan a small but nice wedding.
All this being said, I usually call him my boyfriend but I feel this somehow invalidates the eminence of our long-term relationship, and I am not really worried about a formal engagement when I already consider myself betrothed. So would it be cringe to refer to him as my future husband? Would you think of someone saying this as charming or unbearable?

[Gent207-2]

I've seen this train wreck before

Let's have some fun:

Have you discussed: kids, money, sex and in-laws? Each of these pillars pose deep questions whose answers can greatly determine the sustainability of your relationship.

Case -and-point

Kids - Do you want them? How many? How soon (timeline)? What will you use for birth control? If birth control fails and you end up pregnant off schedule, what will you two do? How will you raise them? corporal punishment? How will children effect your finances? What roles will your parents play in their lives? How do you set boundaries between them and yourselves? Etc.

[mommymommymommy]

You'd just say fiance, at that point, however, i feel like you're putting way too much weight on the "labels" of things. SLOOOWWWWW DOWNNNNN

[Asker]

Hahaha