How to know if he's inlove with me?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys,

Me and my boyfriend just started being together for 2 weeks now, we were seeing each other for almost 4 months before he asked me to be his girlfriend.

In my culture, once you dated. We drop the " I love you" already so I feel a bit worried being with someone and not saying I loveyou to eachother.

I feel like he's not in love with me? Or does it men takes time before they drop the L word?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, it definitely can take guys some time to say the L word even if we're really feeling it. Only been 2 weeks officially dating after 4 months talking, that's still pretty fresh. A couple things that could be going on:

- He may just want to make sure his feelings are really strong and not rush into saying it. Guys can be cautious with our hearts sometimes.

- Culturally it could just be new territory for him too if he's not used to dropping I love you so fast. Give him space to adjust.

- He may show you he cares through his actions more than words at this point - wanting to spend lots of time together, small gifts or gestures, being supportive. Pay attention to those signs.

I wouldn't stress too much yet. You guys are still getting comfortable being official. Keep communicating well and enjoying each other. In time if he does love you, he'll probably let you know in his own way when he's ready. Try not to put him on the spot with it either. Just focus on having fun together!

[HateyouxD]

It's too early for that STOP