Is this an indicator that he's in love with me?

[MissSunshine2]

The guy I'm interested in said that he felt love immediately upon meeting me and that he feels it as intensely as romantic love. More recently. he said he is also attracted to me, as well as loving me as a close friend. That he's definitely interested in me romantically.

[bowenw]

Based on what he has said, he is in love with you.
Keep getting to know him as much as possible to see if there is strong mutual connection and he treats you like a princess.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[dragoblack]

Yes. take it slow, and get to know eachother on a personal basis, before jumping into a relationship.

[DishLady]

How long have you known this guy?

There's a person I felt drawn to immediately... and I can say I felt love, but I wouldn't say it was romantic. I'd say I felt as though we'd known each other for a really long time, meanwhile we'd literally just met.

[MissSunshine2]

A year.

[DishLady]

And he told you now after a year he loves you, etc? Then that's sweet. (If he had only told you when you'd first met then it's either love bombing, which is strange, or he meant "love" in a different "friends" way.)

[MissSunshine2]

He didn't tell me when we first met, but he said six months later, that he instantly felt friendship love when he met me, that he felt drawn to my warmth and friendliness. I think it took him a few months, to admit to feeling any attraction.

[DishLady]

Hmm... You should ask him how he feels the next time he says "drawn" or "attraction" bc I apparently draw a lot of fellows in and it's not romantic or sexual at all, it's more "cool sister" (or "goofy sister") energy bc I'm open and friendly in general. (That sort of attraction makes guys a little protective of you if anyone messes with you, but it's also the attraction that makes them laugh with or tease you.)

[msc545]

So it's an indication that he has extremely poor judgment and very poor impulse control. I think you probably need to get away from this guy as fast as you can.

[MissSunshine2]

How so?

[Staximus]

I second this motion, the guy sounds like a love bomber

[MissSunshine2]

@Staximus possibly. I'm not sure.

[msc545]

Well, if you hang around with him for a week or two, you're going to find out the whole thing real quickly.

[Nikki1989]

Men will say anything to look good in front of a woman. Maintain composure and observe the outcome.

[Staximus]

Anybody who says they fell in love after the first date is full of shit or crazy

[MissSunshine2]

we've now known each other for a year. He didn't say he fell in love immediately, just that he felt a strong connection that he thinks is love after the first meeting.

[Berethor]

He might be lying, love bombing you, a romantic man is suspicious, hard to know for sure.

[ABitShattered]

Yes, and you should pursue him if you're wanting to reciprocate:)

[LiamS95]

See if he is still interested if you don't let him in your panties

[heruncommonsense]

males are incapable of love. he wants to pump and dump you.

[beenherebefore]

Seems like he's really interested in you.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes!