Guys what do you think?

[Amara_09]

I like this guy. Should I approach him as a friend?

Like let’s get a drink and just chat?

[RavVid]

Relationships are based on the guy getting erections over the girl. Putting things on a friends basis is sort of against erections. After getting him out as a friend I think you need to turn it away from a friends basis.

[Amara_09]

Being provactive will only scare him a way……. he is an extroverted introvert

[RavVid]

Difficult then

[Billlewis]

Yes, that's an excellent way to get acquainted with him.

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[Amara_09]

Very direct. I like that

Why can’t everyone be like you?

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much for your kind words, I really appreciate it;)

[SphynxUK]

No, approach him as a potential date or else you’ll give the wrong impression. You don’t want to be a friend, do you.

[bowenw]

That sounds perfect. Have a plan B in mind in case he doesn't drink.

[Amara_09]

He says he doesn’t drink

[Amara_09]

But he would also drink with his family and I am not family

[bowenw]

You could see if he would like to go for lunch or coffee.

[bowenw]

Please feel free to follow me.

[Amara_09]

He likes coffee for sure but how do I get him to be comfortable around me

[bowenw]

Be friendly and chat with him as much as you can to get to know him and see how he behaves around you.

[Amara_09]

I am Texting him on social media but he is not responding?

[Amara_09]

Should I be consistent? Like he is the type to overthink. I feel like I have to prove myself if I am consistent

[bowenw]

Personally I wouldn't overwhelm him or appear desperate. If you work with him be consistent and say hello to him often. Stop by to chat occasionally. Hopefully he will do the same.

[Keith469]

Yes. And if the drinks go well, tell him how you feel. Honesty and directness is the simplest and most effective policy, leading to the least amount of confusion, heartache, and wasted time.

[AviatorTom]

Don't approach him as a friend... just approach him and ask him to have a drink with you.

[OddBeMe]

Yes that’s exactly what you should do. Most relationships develop as friends. And us guys can’t be relied upon to keep the human race alive.

[Roudyrebel8]

Sounds like a decent plan to me and see how it goes

[Jmmmfi4]

YES... BUT GUYS DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS

[Amara_09]

I know. Walking up to him and telling him straight off the bat , like hey I am tryna get you to my bed is really such a asshole move

Plus, I want to stick around the guy. He is so sweet

[Jmmmfi4]

APPROACH HIM... IT'D MAKE MY DAY

[Anonymous]

Yes, approaching as a friend is a good idea in my opinion.

[spartan55]

No guy wants to be your friend.

[DJB72]

Can't hurt

[riverrat3]

Give it a go