Why is a gay guy always sneaking looks at me and gazed back into my eyes when I looked in his?

[Justacuriouswoman1]

[Rainbow_Boy]

As a gay man, the most likely explanation for me would be some aesthetic admiration. I say that, because it takes one to know one. I too have this sharp sense of appreciating feminine beauty, which I, as a much younger person, had confused with a sexual attraction towards women. Now, I know it was just some strong admiration, if not an envy to be like them.

I should say that not all gay men are wired like this. Some are totally uninterested towards anything female. In contrast, some others who themselves are feminine like me, do show that interest towards women, which can be mistaken by those women as a sexual interest. Your friend's reactions are consistent with that theory, even though you can be a better judge about it, since you know him personally. Is he effeminate with strong interest in feminine things, and does he have a lot of female friends?

[RebelinSteel]

When did he tell you he ways Gay, as that is the only way you can know he is gay.

[Justacuriouswoman1]

On his Facebook he came out as gay a few years ago cause he was dating a man. I’m so confused why he gazed into my eyes back and was looking at me when I wasn’t looking

[RebelinSteel]

Only he knows, if he is gay he has zero interest in you sexually.

[fafylone]

The only reason I can think of it that you are so freaking gorgeous. If he ain't doing more than gazing into your eyes then he is not into you romantically.

[LaurenM1997]

Maybe he wants to be friends with you but is shy to come say hi

[DryGermanGuy]

Maybe he thinks you are a guy in women's clothing? :-o