Why would a guy string you along?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy for almost a year now the first 3 months were great but then he started a business and told me he’s too busy for any kind of relationship now and can’t give me what I deserve, I’ve noticed that whenever I stop talking to him he poops back up again texting me. When I text him normally he’s usually good for a little bit and then ghosts and when I stop replying and I guess (ghost) him he pops back up not allowing me to ghost him. Why do you think he’s trying to keep me attached to him? It just seems like he can’t stay away but can’t be with me..

[_Maya_]

Well there are 101 possibilities to why he is doing this. First thing is he has a new business. I can only imagine that is a lot of work and he wasn't lying that he doesn't have time right now for a relationship. As for why he keeps popping back up in your life is a tough one. There could be a lot of reasons. He might be trying to keep you on that side burner in hopes to get in your pants. I know. Sounds cynical but it is possible that is the reason. He may also just be contacting you when he does have some free time. Then he gets busy and the conversation wanes. It honestly could be a lot of things and impossible to know for sure. If it annoys you block his number. He will get the picture.

[_Maya_]

Thank you for most helpful opinion!

[Anonymous]

Because men do this. They don’t value relationships the same way. They don’t communicate the same way either.

[FunkyMonkee]

I guess, the same reason a girl would.
We're all human beings and just because you've got something different between your legs than I have between mine doesn't mean we're THAT different all over. If someone's fucking you over, most likely it's because of THEIR personality and NOT the way everyone with those bit between their legs are. For everyone on the female side that's like you, there's probably someone on the male side like that, too. Well, maybe not 1 for 1 because there's now 3 girls to every guy on the planet. But, you know what I mean.

[Anonymous]

He's just using you till something better comes along.

[Kelley1]

You are fuck material. You are not relationship material.

[boggboss]

To keep u as a option in the future

[UnknownAdvisor2024]

Yeah I think he's using you

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Immaturity.