Why do men with girlfriends text me and flirt with me? Some even openly tell me they wanna have sex with me and that they don't like their girlfriend?

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IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

Flirting is OK. Saying they want to cheat on their girlfriends with you... I personally would find it degrading and finish the conversation immediately...

As why do they do that? Because they are bored? They don't care? They are not happy in their relationship and aren't decent enough to finish it in a civilized way? Who knows what happens in this full of testosterone brain? :D

KittygosMeoWW · Accepted Answer

I get that a lot too… like DF I’m a go tell her. I’m always gonna have another woman’s back so she doesn’t get cheated on.

AnusNdaPainus · Accepted Answer

Are you just fishing for compliments?

Because I’m like 99% sure you already know that you are attractive

im assuming it’s because of your looks but I can’t say for sure because I would never do that to my girlfriend

even tho I see other women who are more attractive

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

that's just what cheaters gonna do... cheat, one way or another

TonyV · Answer

They told you, it's cause they don't like their girlfriend. Why don't they dump the ir girl? I don't know.

Sorry it's just today's trash ass dating practices, loyalty and marriage mean nothing, I've had more than one gen z aged people tell me "you can leave any relationship at any time for any reason, including marriage cause marriage is just a telationship" they also don't seem to care about cheating anymore.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Why you? because you are beautiful and you pose. That seems like an invitation.

Why do they treat their girls like that? because they are trash.

Im single, but I can’t blame them for trying to come on to you. Of course, they want you!

Drew-1990 · Answer

If they don't like their girlfriend they should break up with them. Not be trying to cheat with another girl beautiful or not. Sounds like these men are selfish to me. If I had a girlfriend I would not flirt definitely not cheat on them. I wouldn't care how beautiful you are, cheating is just selfish and wrong.

Chill_Thoughts · Answer

People that cheat only care about themselves. Sex is fun, you are hot so "why not".
They don't care about their partners, even if they get caught and act sorry, the only reason they regret it is because it's now affecting them negatively.
Stay away, they're really not worth your time

WhiteSteve · Answer

Free life lesson: if a guy wants to get into your pants, he will say whatever it takes. It’s ok to be offended by that…. but never be surprised😂 Not all guys are like that, but the ones who are will be.

Nikki1989 · Answer

That is men for you. Most men that are always flirting with me are married. I feel sorry for their wives.

RHK36 · Answer

There's some quote from Marcus Aurelius that I can't remember because I'm too high. The gist is that expecting everyone to be good is expecting the impossible. Unfortunately there's some trash af people that'll never change.

TallAnon · Answer

Realistically, they don't see you as a real person, just "someone on the internet", so it's more like porn.

Nice222 · Answer

Because they are only girlfriends. They are not married and don’t face any financial loss for cheating on them. If they were married it would be a bigger risk. Some men will still take the risk even though they’re married. But men with girlfriends really don’t care about the relationship. If they did they would plan for marriage.

RebelinSteel · Answer

People cheat, they make up excuses and say it’s not really cheating etc but it is and they still do it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Not everyone takes relationships and commitments seriously. These guys make the rest of us look good!

soe11 · Answer

I am not sure about others, I my self loyal to my girlfriend and we have truly understanding and fulfilling eachother desires.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

They are. men that don't belong in relationships

Still-alive · Answer

Suffice it to say don't mess with them fuckboys lol. they're trouble

Rohaan2020 · Answer

they do it bcz u look rlly amazing... and any guy would wanna do it with u

Jerre · Answer

That’s just the way most men are. I’m not married, no girlfriends, not engaged, but do like to chat with girls on GaG.

msc545 · Answer

Gosh, what could this mean?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

they aren't satisfied with their current SO

laly520 · Answer

they r cheaters with no values

sheikalana · Answer

Stop giving attention to trashy people.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

assholes gonna "asshole."

Jennz6 · Answer

Guys are like this with me too

CozyCoffin · Answer

Because they are not loyal.

TheSpider · Answer

Men who do that are so low. Lower than a polecat.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Zero moral compass

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Post pics of these dudes/convos.

AmeerX · Answer

That's crazy.

Why do men with girlfriends text me and flirt with me? Some even openly tell me they wanna have sex with me and that they don't like their girlfriend?

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