+1 yI'm getting close to that age and not so much in my case. I might be an oddball.
I do find young girls in their 20s some of the most physically attractive, but the problem is that the age gap tends to immediately reveal itself as soon as we start talking to each other. Even the way we talk to each other is so different and uneven.
So the women I find most attractive combining both the physical and the ability to have what I consider the best conversations are generally in the age range of 30 to my age. The most attractive women I find tend to be around 35 these days. That number might continue to grow as I grow older.
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The problem again is not the physical attractiveness. Young girls are usually the most physically attractive to my eyes. They're young and fertile and often very athletic and fit. It makes sense to be the most attracted to them biologically.
Yet I've always found the key thing that attracts me to a woman beyond just being physically attracted enough on some basic level is the ability to have the most engaging conversations with her.
It's in this context of conversation where I tend to feel old whenever I talk to a girl in her 20s. My wife and I tried going to a night club a few years back and both agreed, "We're too old for this." That's generally how I feel when I talk to a young girl in her 20s, no matter how pretty. "I'm too old for you." She has her whole life ahead of her and her idea of a good time is probably very different from mine now. - +1 y
@WEIXIN I agree, but the difference is that we can talk to each other in ways where I don't feel like the old guy. I am at least slightly "sapiosexual" or "demisexual" perhaps. While I do find it incredibly appealing to see some 22-year old girl twerking in a nightclub, I lost interest as soon as I start talking to her. The women I find to engage me most in conversations these days are usually 30s and up. If they're younger, they're usually incredibly mature for their age.
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@WEIXIN In general, I find women more physically attractive when they're younger, maybe peaking around 21 or so, but I tend to develop the much deeper attraction than the physical through conversations. That's where women closer to my age always had the advantage in making me deeply attracted to them beyond the shallow "hubba bubba" way.
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+1 yThere are people of all ages attracted to people of all ages. Older women younger men. Younger women older men. The combination that s endless.
I can tell you this - and I’m a faithful and happily married man - but I’ve had more younger women flirt and hit on me in the past few years of my life than I can even understand. The wedding ring serves as zero deterrent. Mind you I stay fit and according to some have aged well, but aged nonetheless. There definitely is a demographic of girls who want a older man.00 Reply
do you mean they attract young girls or they find young people hot? for the first one some are into that but definitely not the majority at all. if you mean finding young people hot like duhhhhh. though a lot will have the decency not to go too low even if they are attracted
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+1 yYeah but that's just natural, biological desire. We're young and we take advantage of that, we dress for attention 🤷♀️ There's nothing seriously wrong with older men finding us attractive. We're not going to date a man in his 50s and they won't be dating us
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1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Yea most of us do , mainly because younger girls’ attract after us , it’s pretty much instant chemistry, I dated younger girls ‘ that said she is finally happy to be with a guy that actually listens to her , compared to guys’ her age , so younger girls’ like being heard , they like the maturity of an older guy, as for us older guy’s younger girls’ are more outgoing an active , she doesn’t say I am not in the mood , she is pretty happy doing anything , and she keeps us happy in the bedroom
10 ReplyI've definitely noticed that a lot of men going through a mid-life crisis become attracted to 20 year olds and sometimes even want to have children with them despite them already having adult children. I've had plenty of men in their 50s hit on me and hint that they wanted a relationship and I honestly find it gross. Just 10 years ago they were 40 and I was 15... Gross. I think they just want to feel young again
20 ReplyMost men are attracted to younger girls, the question is really would they act upon that attraction or not. I'm not quite that old as your range, I'm 33. But I find girls 18 to 21 extremely attractive but what I ever date them, no probably not.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yold men will never be as attractive as young men

through the span of 20yrs 

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Really bad pics
Opinion Owner+1 yfind me some men who looked better at 50 than 20
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The pic of Johnny Depp is backwards lol.
Opinion Owner+1 yjames franco looks like any guy off the street now. no females are lining up to meet him
Opinion Owner+1 yjohnnys not ugly. and he might even look good for his age, but compared to when he was 20. there's just no comparison
722 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I certainly had some vastly younger girlfriends in Australia between around 42- 53 years ( me ) , they ranged from youngest being 19 , although I preferred in 20s , it was good.
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+1 yI think it depends on the man. If a man’s a pervert or maybe a single guy who just likes younger women and it isn’t all about sex.
But decent men who are married. Aren’t after younger women.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAny straight man at any age will always find women in their 20s the most physically attractive. It's an unavoidable fact of human nature. But the vast majority don't show interest in or pursue those young women. It's also a fact that younger women find older men attractive. But again, very few actually act on it.
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Gross. The only ones that are attracted are those who "THINK" those type of men are matured or have life experience that they don't have to learn. They are with them for either the money or the wisdom only.
I've yet to see a 40 year old with a 20 year old unless there was something mentally wrong.
Men tend to always prefer young females, why you asking about 45-50 years old men?
00 ReplyI think it's the opposite, because young girls prefer mature men when their father's love is missing, but why? Mature men don't want to go to bed immediately, they pamper them, make surprises, love coffee, tea, good conversation, and go to bed if the girl wants, they don't want sex right away like teenage boys.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yyes they are, but the vast majority of 45-50 y. o men end up with women close to their own age. also if these young girls act a fool, that can make them unattractive, just as males can also act a fool and make themselves look unattractive
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+1 yMost men are attracted to young women in their 20s and up, just because they are in their 40s or 50s doesn’t mean we lose interest we just don’t bother trying for someone so young anymore but there are some men that will
00 Reply Yes, some do and some women 40-45 are attracted to young guys?
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+1 yGuys don't magically stop admiring and desiring attractive and in-shape young women just because they themselves are no longer young, fit, or in shape.
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+1 yAutomatically, no. That only happens if he's good looking and successful. If he's broke it's not gonna work
20 Reply776 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Why use the words men then girls? Implying that the girls aren't women yet?
00 ReplyThey do if they're in shape and have a thick wallet (the wallet it's not a must but being in good shape and taking proper care of yourself will attract them )
00 Reply4.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Not sure what you are asking, but yes, and it goes both ways.
00 ReplyYes i have seen 60, 70 year old men attracted to young girls.
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. As men grow older, they still find young woman attractive, not underaged girls.
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+1 yAll age groups of men generally prefer women in their early 20's because they are at the peak of their beauty, fertility, and innocence.
10 Reply 936 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I met a 29 year old virgin on here when I was 54. We had a very serious long distance relationship for four years
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+1 y😂 y'all trying to get grown men locked up. They should make a law to arrest under aged girls if they’ve provoked it
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+1 yyour question doesn't make sense can you please rephrase an explain please
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+1 yCan be true for both genders...
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u +1 ygoes both ways
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+1 yYoung girls like older men.
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thats highly unlikley. peoples attraction is based on their desire to procreate. mens sperm will depreciate after 25, therefore increasing the chances for unhealthy children. over 70% of women would not consider dating bald men. the odds are stacked against older men. older males are able to compensate for these short comings with money, but when it comes to attraction alone, females will be attracted to males who are in their reproductive prime, which is under 25. even when you look at gei guys, they overwhelmingly prefer young males
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@WEIXIN You keep believing that! Girls tend to have daddy issues and prefer older men. They also prefer guys that know how to fuck a girl, not little boys that are still trying to figure out what to do.
What makes you think only older guys are bald? One of my neighbors was practically bald by the time he was 18. I just saw some 25 year old in his mug shot and he was nearly bald. - +1 y
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+1 yI don't like really young women.
00 Reply We are attracted to Vitality in all forms!
00 Reply1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I have always preferred younger
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Like pedophile young?
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@TenderFantasy no not that young. At least 18 and up to 50. My wife was 12 years younger than me. I was 34 and she was 22 when we started dating. She liked older men so it worked out for a while. We divorced and she remarried a guy a few years older than me. They are still together and we are still friends.
1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. not necessarily
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+1 yYes and it's gross.
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@VV3ZZY123 no
Of course
00 Replydo you want them to be
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+1 yNope
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+1 yNo except Tom cruise
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThat’s gross
10 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. yeah
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