Do older men find 13/17 year old girls attractive?

[Your_boss]

Since the beginning of time men are known to like younger women for fertility reasons. These feelings are okay unless you act on them. You should never act on them because they are illegal.
But do older men like girls in their young teens and late teens?
Like girls aged 13-17 ?
Just wondering because lots of older men like lets say over 30 and younger than that too keep looking at me at the mall.
It's kind of creepy.

It's natural completely natural because humans have been doing this for more than 2000 years, however, in the last 100 years this has become illegal, but the instinct is still there.
For some men.
I'm not saying all men

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+1 y

I meant to say 13 to 17
Not 13 and 17

[wingattebaby16]

I have 7 sisters, 3 older than me, 4 younger.

Girls like dressing in the latest outfits, and yes, we often like to dress as sexy as possible. Sometimes coz our gfs are wearing the same things or we do it coz we like the attn guys give us when we are at the mall or the beach. Every girl i know checks guys out and we talk privately about who is andi is not hot and cute.

My oldest sister is not very pretty. She always told me our pretty sisters were always showing off for this or that guy, but then getting mad when some guy they dint like was looking at them! Pervert! Stalker! Weirdo!

I feel if i am wearing something that makes guys look. i am basically "advertising" I want to get noticed! It's just that i have certain guys i want to notice me.

Advertising is to get everyone's notice so they will buy a product or service. Not everyone will buy it, but a lot of peeps are interested coz of how it is "packaged" and being marketed.

When any man sees girls dressed to draw attn (and a lot of 13yo to 17 yo girls are really developed sexually), they notice us,

Men are stimulated by what they see, touch, and smell. Show a guy a picture of a pretty naked girl and he probly will get a boner. It is how they are made.

So when a older man notices me, i take the compliment. If he becomes a pest, i tell him to go away. If he doesn't, i leave.

Older men ARE going to notice you at 13 yo... it's how they are made. Most 13yo girls that are developed sexually and dress to attract attn, whether you do it on purpose or not, are going to get noticed.

**Personally, i blame the clothing industry and the fashion industry. They make and market ultra low rise jeans, mid drift exposing shirts, and every kid of sexy bikinis and undies you can think of. Victorias Secret, Hot Topic, etc, all push sexy clothes at even Juniors size clothes. We girls watch the advertisements, the tv shows, and celebrities (kardashians) wearing all these clothes, so we gotta have them!

I am guilty of buying every mini skirt, ultra low rise jeans and shorts, and the sexiest briefest undies and bras i could buy coz my gfs had them and i wanted to fit in. Plus all the cute guys talked to me and asked me out.

It's part of LIFE. Girls usta marry at 12 yo and to men in their 30's, coz that was society.

50 years ago, a nice old man being nice to teen girls was accepted and encouraged. Now he is a pervert and called a pedohpile!

[Grotty]

I hate being a man because I cannot help myself looking at girls as soon as they look of age and dress sexy my eyes are everywhere or rather they used to be because I am so fed up with the abuse I get so I try hard not to look now. I am 54 but even when I was 18 I got called nasty names for liking what females were dangling in front of my face. We live in a messed up world now where women can walk about almost naked and any man who dares lust after them who is not good looking will often get verbal abuse, a bad reputation or even arrested if a woman complains. I am a 1 out of 10 on the attractive scale and advise any man average looking or below to avoid looking at women because doing so will just get you abuse or trouble!

[Anonymous]

Of course older men find young girls attractive, but mostly because of the simple fact that males are attracted to females. They are attracted to physical youthfulness mainly because that means their bodies are fresh and ripe, I suppose. It's sort of an animal thing, but it's totally natural.
There is really nothing creepy about men looking at you. They probably think you look older than your age - and you do (I looked at your picture) - and they probably think you are pretty. I'm in the same boat as you (though I'm 21) and I have been told on many occasions that I am mature for my age; my level of maturity is probably physically visible, which may attract men. (Just guessing.)
If you're 17, there's nothing to worry about really. I got asked out by a college guy when I was 14 (probably 'cause I looked older), but I wasn't creeped out. I was flattered, actually, because I like older, mature guys. I've never been attracted to anyone my age. The last guy I fell in love with was about 37 years older than me.
If an "older" guy finds a 13-year-old attractive, that's an entirely different story because the girl isn't even fully developed and she's still a kid, basically. And the man would have to be sick in order to attracted to her romantically or sexually.

[KillerTaco]

Don't you actually have a boyfriend that's 27? You don't think it's creepy if you date someone like that nearing their 30's. Why would you even ask a question like that? Oh and aren't you 14? As I recall that's what you said in one of the questions here on GAG...

[Debbie2020]

My thoughts exactly.

[Your_boss]

Where I live, it's legal

[KillerTaco]

Well why ask this question then? You seem confused about something...

[ImagineRelease]

It's a mix of publicity and common sense. Brooke Shields was 17 when she was modeling for CK. Samantha Foxx was 16 as a topless page 3 girl in the UK. Obviously when the modeling ages for the "perfect" girls being set so low, it's got two critical factors. 1) Women can be beautiful at any age, and between 13 to 17 they can be those ages two BUT... 2) the age of models in all the ads drive the point home that this is what is beautiful. so it's a psychological drumming into the mind.

The painter Ruben painted women that on an average female frame would be about 160 lbs give or take some. They were not skinny at all. And that was considered beautiful for it's day. So most guys would say yes.

Now to go one step further... the age of marriage in the US before 1885 was 10-12 in most states and 7 in Delaware. So given the fact that people were getting married at such young ages there's a history of either intrigue or finding those ages beautiful. Or the laws wouldn't have been in place for it.

[Your_boss]

:D good answer!

[GoodManDave]

It depends on the guy.

In the summer, we have car washes put on by the cheer teams at the local high schools. At 18 or 19, I always looked forward to that. Not ones that looked 13... obviously... But ones that looked like they were 17/18.

Now I just see them as kids. It seems like they get younger each summer. It's not something I go for. I'll be like... hey... I might sneak a peek at their moms, but other than that... My interests have changed. I'll be interested in women who are 25 to 35. Get me to a beach, with some women, and I'm happy...

[goodbadboy]

I think a girl of you beauty, and you are beautiful, will get looked at wherever. However, no man should act on it, ogle you, make you feel uncomfortable. Date within your age and ignore the others until you are there. It will happen soon enough. And, if its too creepy, call the mall cops. :)

[front2back]

I'm 18 and I like this 15 (almost 16) year old girl at my old high school. Even though we like each other Im going to wait until she's 16 in February before I actually ask her out. I wouldn't date below 16 because that's below the AOC in my state. Even then I don't like to have more that a 3 year gap. Preferably 2 or less.

I'm attracted to her because I'm attracted to her, her age has nothing to do with it. In fact she looks like she's a year or two older. I would actually prefer my partners be as close to my own age as possible.

[Crazyced]

I'm attracted to grown women's body. Some women get theirs during those years. So if I'm in a situation where I can't reasonably see she's still a high schooler (they are in the distance, can't see their face, etc), it's very possible for me to find them attractive.

[StickStickity13]

Most people misuse the word pedophile. A pedophile is attracted to prepubecent kids. Technically if you're attracted to a 14 year old who has hit puberty you're not a pedophile. That being said I would never go after a girl that young it's immoral and I find it disgusting.

[Alexious]

If they're some fucked up pedophile, then yes.
If they're a normal human being, and not some disgusting pig, then no.
Simple as that.

[LovesTVDx]

Exactly.

[BelleGirl21]

Excellent wording.

[Crazyced]

Actually, no they wouldn't. Might want to lookup what a pedophile actually is.

[Findingmyway]

Exactly.. And sometimes they are looking wondering why a 13/14 yr old is dressed or presenting themselves like an 18 plus yr old. Not all do but some yes. Adult mature men who are not pedophiles dont check out young girls.

[Alexious]

Well, if they know that the girl is a 13-17 year old, and they're okay with that then they're fucked up.
Period. If the girl it pretending to be someone she's not, then she's fucked up too.
As for the two dudes who downvoted me. Do you have some dark secret you're ashamed of?
If so, I hope you rot in a dark cell. Where you have a big dude who fornicates your arse hole in the shower. You deserve it.

[thewanderingme]

as a teen much older men used to flirt with me. it creeped me out too.

[blondfrog]

Yeah they do and there are 70 year old man who find young girls at that age sexually attractive. In my opinion I don't see what is wrong with a older man being with say a 17 year old as long as he doesn't just use her for sex, but 13-16 that's messed up.

[DivaMonae]

I'm 16 and and older guys 18+Mohave hit on me ever since I was 11... So my answer would be yes but at the same time I devloped early and look older than my age.

[LovesTVDx]

I think it can be natural for men to be attracted to some teenage girls who may be developed for their age or act older but 13? 13? That's sick.

[Anonymous]

Some of them do, they're called pedos.
You were dating a 27 year old guy just because he had money, a car and a house. Why is it creepy when other guys around his age look at you?

[SweetAndSassy14]

A lot of older guys check me out all the time and it really makes me uncomfortable

. Cause well I'm developed...(wide hips, small waist, big boobs and butt ECT) and I have a nice shape on me.. and when I wear shorts a lot of guys (especially older ones) stare at my butt... I get shivers of disgust everytime I think about that old security guard staring at my ass... not only that but most older guys sometimes follow me places without me knowing... which really disturbs me...

[Travis1315]

Yes honestly I've been attracted to younger women 13-16 yo since i turned 20. Im attracted to the youthfulness mostly yalls tiny body playfulness i am always constly looking at checking out younger girls everywhere i go love me the soccer field i never go and talk to them tho thinking that something would go hella worng. Even tho i am looking to find a younger female partner 13-15ish to take care of daddy like. So your answer is yes Men do like checking out them young tight bodys dont trip.

[Sexualchrist]

It depends on the individual girl. If she is already well into development and is pretty then any man who said he isn't attracted to her is either lying or a bit strange.

I say if there's grass on the pitch then it's time to play.

[LovesTVDx]

Even if she's 13? O. o

[Sexualchrist]

That's where you get into a bit of a grey area because you're dealing with a demographic where only a certain portion of girls that age are developed and have grass on the pitch. The ones who are developed have bodies well ahead of their minds.

I probably would because I'm kind of a sick bastard but I'd say that a girl under 15 is off limits.

[Anonymous]

Yea, it happens. That's just how masculine sexuality works. Guys' tastes develop over puberty then don't really change, it sucks too. From the guy's perspective, they're just having the same feelings they've always had but now they're looked at as creepy for basically nothing.

[normalice]

if a girl is 'developed' she is going to attract the attention of older men. Probably younger men too. Of course, very few would act on it.

[BelleGirl21]

Girls that age usually look a little like boys. It takes time to develop the perfect curves.

[miserybusiness]

I don't get why you got downvotes. You're right hahah. They're undergoing puberty so having flat chests/butts is the norm.

[BelleGirl21]

@miserybusiness irk? I thought I was built in high school but I really didn't know the truth lol.

[normalice]

development occurs at different ages, though. I've seen 15 year olds that looked in their mid 20's, and vice versa.

[Your_boss]

I am 14 and
Already have a 10"
Difference
From my waist to my hips.
So I'm not straight, nor do I look like a little boy.
But I have seen girls that do look like little boys.
It depends on if you've gone through puberty or not

[YourFutureEx]

If they deserves to get attraction (they're worthy enough to be liked), I'll like them irrespective of their age.

[miserybusiness]

Yeah. Makes me hella uncomfortable if some 40 year old pedo ogles a 13 year old though. Shiz is nasty.

[Krushhbrownies]

Of course they do.. There are a lot cases of that happening. Teachers being attracted to their student for example.

[Anonymous]

older men are over 60 not over 30

[kangy]

yes u r right

[miserybusiness]

eh, that's subjective

[playdatesx]

He's right lol, 30 is the peak for males

[Your_boss]

Since I'm 14,
Guys who are 30 are old to me