You’re 25, he’s 42.
I sent him my photo in a pretty dress, he said “Beautiful Princess 🥰”
He has been texting me for a month, we have been exchanging voice messages a lot too. He has opened up to me about his main weakness and his biggest joys.
He often sends me red heart emojis. He’s not too chatty, but he seems to be interested in me.
Is he serious about me?
Maybe because you are a beautiful princess. Men know women want to be treated like princesses that’s why he called you that. He may genuinely be interested in you or he’s just after you sexually. Regardless of the end game how you play this game is often the same if you’re just looking to get some tail or looking for an actual relationship.
I am looking for an actual relationship… How do I play the game so I get it instead of something casual?
I live in Europe, he lives on another continent. If he’s not genuinely interested. Why’d he waste his time for a pussy tens of thousands miles away?
Well first of all a lot of men want a feminine girl, maybe even something of a traditional wife. One who cooks, cleans, wants to stay home to raise the children while he works. But it has to be something she really wants, not just putting on a front to land the man then completely change once they get married. So if you’re not that type of lady he may key in on that right away. Why is he not w someone already? Why isn’t he married? Where did you meet him?
Because even if you’re still thousands of miles away he can ask for nudes, sexting. Plus the thrill of a younger girl. Doesn’t always mean he’s actually interested in a relationship.
We have been texting everyday for more than a month, without sexting and nudes…
He’s taking his time ore than likely. Because if he just came straight out and asked for nudes would you send them to him?
So, you think he just wants nudes? :(
It’s possible. I mean because what is he really going to do move to where you’re at? Would you move to him?
I told him the other day that my friends want to keep me here in Europe, He responded he understands because he would love to keep me too… He said he can’t wait till we go on holidays together. And he wants to shop with me, cook for me when I am sick, take care of me and snuggle me to sleep… He said maybe in summer he can visit Europe…
Sounds like something a lot of us men would say to make you feel “special.” Why wouldn’t it just be easier to find someone who is closer to him?
I don’t know… Maybe he really likes me? Why are you so against that idea?
I’m not against it. Sure he likes you most likely purely based off of looks. There’s no one there closer to you that you could be w
I like him too… There are men closer, but there’s something about him that I like…
Not sure what… I feel like in real life we’d be a great match…
He loves being in charge, I love allowing my man to be in charge.
He is organized, I am spontaneous,
He is impatient, I am patient,
He needs a place to relax, I am relaxing.
He is protective and caring and probably has a difficult character, but I don’t mind…
If he liked just based on my looks we would probably not be talking everyday more than just a month, I also sent him my photo without makeup and I am just average there, he still likes me…
Everything g you described sounds like me. Why wouldn’t we be a good match? I’m just telling you how men operate. You’re assessing every g based off of how you feel, not so much logic. I’d just hate for you to get your heart broken.
You don’t even know me, why do you care.
Why do you think I’d be heartbroken?
Don’t have to know you to care about people. Because things may not turn out the way you think k they’re going to turn out.
Should I not like him anymore?
You can still like him. I’m just saying be careful. I think he likes the thrill of a younger girl. He may be saying all the right things that pretty much all women want to hear
But if he wants to get to know me and if he will make the effort to come to me and see me, and if what he says is the same that I want, is not that a win-win situation?
I want dating and he knows that I am not into casual things. He has also known that I’ve been single for a while. He’s been single for 2-3 years too. He is curious about my life, always asks me about my day, he asks me about my plans, my friends.
He seems to be interested and I am interested too…
And maybe we could be a good match too, but we obviously are not, if you are not the one talking to me everyday and showing me how good of a match we could be.
So you think there’s nothing else to like about me other than being a younger woman?
Yes it could be a win if it blossoms into a relationship. But a man will travel a long distance or have sex w a girl.
He already travels all the time, his job is flexible, he was texting me even from the vacation he was recently on.
Why travel just to have sex with exactly me? And why get to know me close for more than a month?
It’s hard to explain this to you because you’re a female.
Try… What do you think he wants from me? And how should I be careful?
I’ve been trying to but your mind, which for obvious reasons is thinking like a girl. You’re not receptive to what I’m saying.
What would you do in my shoes? How would you be careful?
What is it about him that is different from other men?
He is consistent,
Very smart,
Very sweet,
Attentive,
Nice,
Shows care and support,
Is willing to be patient with me when I told him that I need some time to open up, he said “I will follow your pace and will never make you feel in hurry”
He is dominant,
Adventurous,
Is not fearful of anything,
He is successful,
He shows genuine interest,
He looks good,
He has kind eyes,
He has kind smile,
He’s someone I can picture trusting,
He’s taking it slowly,
He is a gentleman,
And makes me feel special.
Sounds all too good to be true. But you know better than everyone else so do as you please
I know he sounds too good to be true, that is why I like him, he sounds like a whole package…
But the other day he opened up to me a little, that he finds it hard to contain his anger when things get out of his control…
I think that’s why he’s single.
But I kind of like being controlled, so we might be a match in that too.
What’s your advice, I still don’t get. No longer respond him? Or how to be careful?
A lot of men can take control. I can control you if you’d like me to lol just be careful. It’s easy for someone to tell you all this stuff online. Meeting them in person may be different. Maybe not from the start but over time if they may not be what they say they are
You can’t even answer without being anonymous, how can you even control me?
I just can. Everything you described in him is me.
Show yourself then and maybe we can talk…
Why would you want to talk to me if this other man you speak of you’re basically falling over?
You seem to have +1 quality, you hate the thought of me being heartbroken…
So have a lot of qualities. I’m probably worse w my anger, spent 10 years in the military. So yes I live to control things.
Yet, you still don’t show yourself…
No. Because there’s no need to. You have the perfect man according to you. Or you saying there’s a possibility that I could take his place?
You see? You think I have a perfect man… I don’t have him yet… But I like him and I hope he likes me the same way…
Because I can picture falling for him someday.
He’s not perfect. You’re saying he is by how you speak of him. Why not just let me take over
lol, you’re empty words. I just offered to talk and you’re still hiding.
I’m not hiding. It’s boring.
He texts me everyday… This morning he didn’t text… Have you got any ideas why?
Cause he has someone else on the side
Why you think so? :(
He’s a man. Men love women. There’s a lot of women closer there to him than you are.
So? Why is he wasting my time then? :(
You’re very naive aren’t you?
Maybe, a little?
Sounds like a lot
Okay. I am. So what? I don’t think it makes me any less than anyone.
Makes it easier to ma populate you
And how are you going to populate me if that’s not a secret? Lol
If you've never met, it could be a love scammer.
Did he message you yet
He liked my pic as soon as I posted it.
Bingo!!!
He texted today. He said he wants to call with a voice call.
He’ll call in 10 minutes.
So did he call
He did. He called this evening too.
some guy used this praise as flirtation and it worked then all the unoriginal losers see this and started using it themselves hoping it would leave a good impression like it did before with another guy and girl.
in short because most guys are not good at this game and would be better if they stop playing it.
No one outside of India has ever called a girl a princess since 1855
He’s from the US lol
False. I call my wife queen or princess a lot. It is a term of endearment. I also call my little girls princess or I use a traditional change to the name. Won't share the language or how it works but it translates as little (name) and is often used as a term of endearment between husband/wife or mother/father and children.
Out of topic but who is that girl in the pic ,. She’s so beautiful
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Any who has ever called me that, I blocked. Its creepy. Especially because he’s old. Id assume he had a fetish for young girls. I date older too but i always try to make sure he doesn't just have a thing for young girls. If he wouldn't date someone his own age, Im gone. I’ll be that age one day so I need to know you're not creeping for women as young as possible.
Because you are beautiful to his eyes and he is happy to have you as his girlfriend, So in his eyes you are a princess to him
Because its a compliment men know women like
What about the red heart emoji? I wished him “Good night” and sent a kiss emoji and he sent me single red heart emoji.
He usually talks more to me, I am sad he only sent single red heart emoji. He often says, kissing emojis, red heart emojis to me.
I wonder if it means he likes me?
Yes, he is talking to me everyday and complimenting, but I wonder why he was so brief today, sending me just one emoji of red heart.
It was night and he was about to sleep in an hour or two, he wasn’t busy.
lol, I just feel sad because I like him a lot
I don't know. Ask them.
So are you aware that Arwen is like a 3000 years old? And Aragorn is like 80? Princess is also a title given to royalty who were the children of kings and queens. So someone could be like 70 and be considered a princess.
He could be your dad so that's probably why. a lot of dads call their daughters princess
Can be a reference to your age, but it's hard to tell if someone is serious.
Harmless pillow talk to get you to think with you feelings rather than your mind.
"Is he serious about me?" - listen to his actions instead of his words.
Princess is usually what an old guy would call the bimbo he's trying to pull / talking to 🤷♂️... it's really cringe lol..
serious about you? he hasn't even taken you on a date.
We assume women like the princess treatment.
Cause he knows you'd love it
Dude, stop making this same post. We all know you’re some creep older guy with a fantasy
Have you even met him yet?
Not yet. We live in different states. He’s a serious man, a medical professor.
He has been very sweet to me.
Why?
I seriously like him though… Do you think he doesn’t like me?
Just 17 years age difference.
Yes…
He’s not. I have his Socials. Not married no kids. He’s been single last 2 years.
Never married.
He lives alone, we talk pretty often with voice calls and voice messages, he texts me the first thing in the morning and goes to sleep messaging me…
I am in Europe, he’s in the US and we have only known and texting each other for a month.
He told me he would love to meet me when he travels to Europe this summer.
I don’t think he just wants to meet me for something casual, he’s a handsome and a successful lad, wouldn’t waste his time to talk to me everyday just for one night in summer.
He has been telling me he wants to go on holidays together with me, he wants to cook for me and take care of me, he wants to go to sleep snuggling with me, with my head on his chest, he has been nice. Asks me about my day everyday and tells me about his day. Even when he was gone on a vacation, he was texting me from there everyday. I like him and I feel like he does like me too…
You asked me questions but never answered mine. Do you think he really likes me?
@AndreiBMa He’s not married.
I've only used it as a pejorative.
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