Why hate men just because?

[Anonymous]

I recently had a friend post an image of a T-shirt that says mute the men. She also commonly posts things that fit the man hater category. In the event this comes up as a topic of discussion when we are in public how do I respond to this? She is an extremely promiscuous person and yet anything a guy does is always wrong. I don't understand this way of thinking. Thanks!

[Here_We_Go_Again]

Personally I don't understand why lightskin or white women hate men - Honestly if men spoiled me like that (As a dark skinned woman) I wouldn't really have anything to complain about.

But in my experience as a darker woman who Isn't really given that priority and who is actually kind of socialized the same way as a man 9(o suppress her feelings and to self-erase. etc)

I would say that unlike light skin or white women I have a more valid reason to hate men as just a means of survival, because they seem to terrorize my existence as if I was an abomination or a curse - And I can't really manipulate the patriarchy to serve my needs in the same way that they can.

That's why when we talk about feminism I always differentiate between white feminism versus dark skinned feminism because white feminism is just trying to get more privileged than you already have while dark skinned feminism my feminism is about protecting myself from men who just see me as a means to an end or a resource to take from

[Nikki1989]

There are usually very good reasons to hate or at least distrust men. You are obviously not giving us the full story here.

[Asker]

I don't really have a story about her necessarily, just her actions I've seen

[HelpfulWoman]

cut that "friend" off frankly.

[Miah04]

It's the t-shirt, it has consumed her 😭

[laly520]

she is so toxic n immature