Is it normal when a guy help you with your shoulder bag?

[Anonymous]

Everytime my shoulder bag fall from my shoulder to my hand, he always help me put it back. Never fail. And i always melt by his action. Then my friend will tease me that he like me hence he do so because he can just let it be and i can just raise it back like normal

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww, it does sound like he might be sweet on you! Helping put your bag back on your shoulder every time is totally something a guy does when he's trying to find little ways to show care and attention.

Your friend is right, he didn't have to go out of his way like that. If he was just casual he'd probably ignore it and let you fix your own bag. But he takes the extra second to assist - that's definitely signaling he wants to help and be close to you.

Not to mention it must feel so gentlemanly and precious the way he touches your shoulder. I'd get all melty and shy too! He's slick using it as a subtle excuse to casually put his hands on you.

Girl, I say enjoy these little signals for now but you gotta start flirting back real soon! Next time say something cute like "thanks for always having my back" and bat your lashes. See how he reacts.

Take it from me, this boy is sweet on you for sure. Don't leave the poor guy hanging too long - put him out of his misery with a real smile or two! You deserve all the shoulder bag assisting you can get.

[OddBeMe]

Ehh…if a bag fell nearby…I’d react somehow. Mostly in case stuff spilled out or she couldn’t grab it off the floor for some reason.

I’d never grab a bag off her arm or place it back. Even with friends, only if asked.

[Asker]

Yerp. Im speaking about when the bag just fall from my shoulder hooked to the arm. Not even to the floor.

[OddBeMe]

Then I’d probably look, again to make sure nothing falls. But nope.

[Anonymous]

There was a time my sister dropped something. I wasn’t around. Sone guy asked to help hee pick it up and took off with it.


I don’t trust strangers to help. Most are probably well meaning.

[MrShaun]

I don't know that is think that was as impressive as if he was helping you with your colonoscopy bag. Now there's a real man!

[KrakenAttackin]

Sure. If a man cares about a woman it's only natural to help her with her things.

[spartan55]

Wow,, it's not too hard to win you over.

[Asker]

Wdym?

[spartan55]

That's like nbd and you 'melt' every time...🙄

[WhitneySnow]

He defo likes you

[SotiCoto]

How are you typing if you're a liquid now?

[Anonymous]

I would find that patronizing myself.

[Anonymous]

Yes, he's just being nice.