Why does he acts hot and then after the date acts cold?

[Anonymous]

Before the date he acts very attentive and romantic, sending me kissing emojis and just being sweet. I totally get that. That makes sense.
However, a day after the date, he’s a different person. He acts like we are friends only. Anything romantic or sexual in conversation/ texting won’t happen

I wanted to see if I can change the vibe and sent him a few kissing emoji’s but he laughed at them!!!

I think it’s time to break up. What you think?

[antnd]

a lot of things can be the reason, he can be a guys who see lot of girls, maybe ur not his type and he have « red flag », maybe the desire is disappear like, I don't know if all guys thinks the same but for me, sometimes i desire a lot and if i succeed to kiss her or more sometimes the desire leave

[BoopBoopBeep]

May have some other stuff going on in his life right now that are distracting him. If it forms a pattern I'd ask him about it.

[hardy_25]

Assuming that you guys had sex*

Do you believe that sex might be the reason for his change. The changed behaviour could be him taking you for granted. Try restraining him from sex for sometime. Note his behavioural pattern. If he feels annoyed and repulsive... You should leave him and move on😉

[Dkc123]

Feelings can go up n down but facts dont. If u know for a fact that he likes u then don't worry bout his hot n cold behavior

[Asker]

i don't know if he likes me or the sex.

[Dkc123]

Do u like him! If u do why dont u casually ask him out again se if he's down or not.. if he's not move on. Simple.

[stark04]

How was your date? What happened?

[spartan55]

Break up? For what?