Why is he hot and cold?

Question

This guy that I like I tried talking to him a few weeks ago I asked his name he asked mine and then I was in the back by the bakery he made eye contact with me at least twice then one day I’m working in the aisle I could tell he was glancing at me I then turned around to see him standing in the deli just looking at me we locked eyes I smiled and waved at him I didn’t want him to feel bad he smiled and waved back at me then few seconds later he walks in the aisle I’m in right past me goes what’s up victoria or something like that he could’ve gone through the other aisles but no then he sees me counting at the last register there’s so many people to ask and he asked me where the manager was like wth then I smiled and waved at him later with a friend he awkwardly half smiled and waved almost looked so disinterested so I got confused like wtf then he walks right past me while he was going home I said bye Mike so loud he was wearing headphones so I don't know if he ignored me or just didn’t hear me? He didn’t even look at me once and I’m scared he thinks I was stalking him or something because he didn’t acknowledge me for shit he never does it at the store so I don't know what to think after all of this do u think he’s interested or am I wasting my time

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Try again. If he's not into replying, just move on- IF you don't want to (gently) confront him about it (the hot and cold thing).

I wish I had gone through with at last half of the thoughts concerning girls I would liked to have met when I was a teen and young adult. It sure would have made life more interesting. AT my 50th HS reunion, it turns out that a gal (who I thought was really kinda hot in a "girl next door" kinda way), said she wished I would have asked her out! I was a science nerd and had it in my mind that she would never like a guy like me.

So, nothing ventured, nothing gained. But, I also didn't wear myself out trying to reinvent the wheel: if something wasn't going to be, I just moved onward.

I wish you good luck in trying to find out who the right guy for you is, and where he might be hiding. :- )

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I can’t read minds. It can be many reasons.  Who knows maybe he was trying to be around you? Maybe he honestly wasn’t. Maybe he’s not all mentally there. I have no idea