Why is he hot and cold?

[Karenjjj]

I started talking to this guy we both decided we weren’t looking for anything serious atm and decided to be just friends with benefits and we haven’t had sex yet just oral stuff and he actually said he likes me etc but he’s very cold at times in person he acts like nothing happened and on messages he’s so cold only one worded answers and the other day I asked him if he wants to come see me at a hotel and he goes no sorry and then yesterday I messaged him to hangout and he just left me on read like wtf is his problem and then he says he likes me and is so affectionate holding hands kissing hugging etc in person and he’s so confusing already we didn’t even have sex once yet wouldn’t an friends with benefits jump at the chance to meet at a hotel and do something?

[Guy13]

Too much games playing going on in this relationship

[Karenjjj]

Thank u exactly my point what’s his problem lol is he confused or what’s up I can’t tell from a guys perspective

[Guy13]

My radar is going off is al I can say. Protect yourself and heart with this one.

[Anonymous]

he's so boring n dry
Communication level 0

[Karenjjj]

Yessssssss thank uuuuu

[Karenjjj]

That’s my problem with him he acts so nice in person and then does this stupid shit like why’s he being so hot and cold and then he even said no to seeing me at a hotel what friends with benefits declines that and we didn’t even actually have sex even once and he’s doing this

[Opinion Owner]

Thats lame asf.. Too much bs going on w him
Better look for a new friends with benefits that have the same energy n vibes w u

[Karenjjj]

Thank uuuu so much for your help ☺️💕🌷

[Opinion Owner]

you're welcome girl 🌹🌸🌷

[spartan55]

He's about boring af.

[Karenjjj]

Foreal lmao I’m trying so hard to talk to him and he being weird af I promise he’s so chill in person but in texts this mf leaves me on read and just doesn’t respond even declining my invite to a hotel and we didn’t even actually have sex yet just oral stuff why tf is he so hot and cold

[spartan55]

No idea, I wouldn't even waste time trying to figure it out. (I know this is next to impossible for girls to do)

[Karenjjj]

I think I will stop with this guy tbh he’s making me feel stupid and lowkey like I’m desperate or some shit which I’m not I just wanted to hangout since I like him Lmao he can suck it man’s acting like a freakin princess

[spartan55]

Lol... 😂 Damn straight.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe he wants to go all the way?

[Karenjjj]

I told him we could it’s why I even asked if he wanted to come to the hotel and he said no like wtf and not only that tmi but we were about to do it in his car the other night and we just ended up doing oral stuff like why didn’t he take advantage of the whole thing lol

[WhitneySnow]

Hmm. Maybe he likes oral better. Or he’s not ready to go all the way with you.

[Karenjjj]

Thank you for your response ☺️💕

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome 💕

[In_Trance]

That's exactly how you're acting toward him

[Karenjjj]

How lol I’m trying to talk and he doesn’t even wanna talk and I don’t wanna annoy him what do u think I should do

[In_Trance]

So you wanna talk to him... you show interest and then follow up with "not looking for anything serious"
How is that clearly not hot and cold? You' wanna be involved but only to a certain point?

[Karenjjj]

I just said nothing serious because he said it first and I didn’t wanna scare him off by saying I want something serious 😭