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WHY do we play hot and cold with the person we like?

In my situation, it is a guy doing it to me. One day he is crazy silly flirting and teasing me. The next he sit away from me, looks at me a few times but otherwise ignores me.

I didn't want to say why do "GUYS" play hot and cold because both guys and girls do.

WHY? Is it out of fear or insecurity?

GUYS - do you do it because you're afraid you're coming on too strong, don't know how the girl feels, or are insecure and want to be sure if you can see her reaction and tell if she likes you?

GIRLS - do you do it because you want him to chase you? Do you do it for attention? You don't want to appear needy?

How do you STOP them from playing hot and cold without looking like a fool?

WHY do we play hot and cold with the person we like?
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