If he’s snap score goes up by 1 or 2 since we ended does that mean he’s already talking to another girl?

[Anonymous]

We ended about 2 days ago and he’s snap score only goes up by 1 or 2 like who are u talking to? Am I being paranoid? Could it just be he’s friend?

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay don't even stress about it, 1 or 2 points is nothing. We all talk to our friends so it could literally be anyone texting him dumb stuff. I know it probably sucks cause it just ended with you guys, but it's only been a couple days.

Dudes can be stupid though so I wouldn't put it past him to be talking to another girl already, but there's no way to know for sure from just a point or two on Snap. I'd just try to do your own thing for a little bit and not even look at his score cause that'll just psyche you out. Hit up your girls, play some video games, whatever you're into. Take your mind off it!

If his score starts going up a lot over the next week or so, like tens of points, then maybe it's worth asking what's up just so you know for sure. But try not to assume the worst yet. Breakups are tough, I know it sucks seeing his name and wondering. But try not to read too much into small stuff, it'll just stress you out more. His loss anyway if he moves on that quick! Hope you start feeling better. Let me know if you wanna hang out or something to take your mind off it for a bit.

[Asker]

Thank you :) do u think he’ll ever reach out to me again? We ended because he doesn’t live here and he said he sees no future with me :( but then I don’t understand why he just didn’t tell me that from the start

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that's really rough. Breakups are always hard, even more so when there's distance factors involved too. It's totally understandable that you'd be confused about why he didn't just say from the start that he didn't see a future because of living far away. Guys can be kinda crappy communicators sometimes.

As for whether he'll reach out again, it's really hard to say. Personally, if a guy told me he didn't see a future because of distance, I'd take that at face value and assume it was really over. Long distance rarely works out in the long run, no matter how strong the connection is. But who knows, sometimes breakups don't always stick, and people do change their minds occasionally.

I'd try your best not to get your hopes up too much about him contacting you again though. Maybe just go no contact for now - block/delete him on social media if you need to, so you can start moving on. Focus on yourself and your friends for support. If he does reach out down the road, then cross that bridge if/when you come to it. But for now, protect your heart! I'd say it's best to assume it's done unless he can prove otherwise. Stay strong - you'll get through this!

[Anonymous]

Why does that matter? You two are no longer together. Maybe he was already talking to other women when he was w you. Regardless you both went your separate ways, stop worrying about what he’s doing.

[Asker]

I’ll try :(

[Opinion Owner]

Like Nike says, “Just do it!” No other option kiddo. I mean you could choose to stay stuck on it but you won’t be able to progress if you co time to hold o to it.

[Asker]

Yeah I know your right. But do U think he’ll ever regret losing me?

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t know. Even if he does regret it later on down the road how is that going to change things?

[Asker]

Maybe we can have a nice relationship then i don’t know. It just suck cuz I feel like I care and he doesn’t. Thanks for your help :)

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you two breakup? As for a relationship later on? Why would you want to be someone’s backup when you weren’t his first?

[Asker]

Yeah your right it’s just hard rn I feel like I won’t find anyone else

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I know there’s an age range there on your profile but exactly how old are you?

[Asker]

I’m 20

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you feel you won’t ever meet someone? Especially at your age.

[Asker]

I just feel like men my age and in my generation don’t want love anymore and just want to go to club and make out with girls and have nothing more then that. That’s how the guy I was with made me feel like I was just one of the girls he was using in the moment. I've never met a solid guy who wants a beautiful relationship. So I just feel like there’s no man out there for me u know?

[Opinion Owner]

I can understand that. Have you thought about someone a little older? Maybe even 10 years older? I don’t think that’s a big age difference. But maybe an older man will be more mature, have his life together. Someone who is more to your liking.

[Asker]

Yeah maybe but I’m just hoping he comes my way I don’t want to go out looking for it u know?

[Opinion Owner]

I know. A lot of women don’t want to be the one to go after men. But too a lot of men aren’t dating either or approaching women so that makes it harder. You might have to give a few smiles if you see someone who you may like.

[Asker]

Yeah I’ll try it out thank you 💕

[Opinion Owner]

Hang in there.

[spartan55]

Stop stalking your ex. There is no upside.

[Asker]

I can’t control myself

[spartan55]

Learn to. Force yourself. Be accountable to a friend.

[Asker]

Huh?

[spartan55]

To help you stop.

[Asker]

:( I’ll try u think he’ll come back?

[spartan55]

No, but why does it matter? Have some self respect.

[Asker]

Damn ok

[spartan55]

I am saying that to help you. Why would you want someone back who didn't want you before?

[jahaims]

It ended. Leave him be