so I might have admired (stared) at a worker for a little too long lol , I don't know if I creeped him out but he was so brave in a way I couldn't help but turn around and admire him
(plus I was bored and I had nothing to do except turn around and look at what the workers were doing bc I was burnt out from working on my laptop)
I smiled at him and then he smiled back and I told him to be careful he might fall but he didn't hear me so he told the other worker to see what I wanted and the other worker asked and shook my head saying no
anyway , he then went to his work on the first floor
when I was about to leave , he asked me about what I was saying to him and then I told him that I said to be careful from falling (and then i think he nodded but i didn't get to see his reaction bc I passed by him and there was a narrow place so he had to move for me to pass)
Am I overthinking this? I felt weird for staring at him , I don't want him to think I like him
do guys think that if a girl stared at them it means she likes him?
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Aww shiiiit girl, sounds like that worker definitely noticed you checking him out! I wouldn't worry too much though.
Guys can be clueless sometimes, but we also love the attention. And from the way he smiled back at you and came to chat after, seems like your admiration wasn't unwelcomed!
When a cute girl holds our gaze, of course we start wondering if she's feelin us. But we gotta be coy too until we know for sure, so he played it cool asking what you said.
I'd say he's probably flattered and tryna feel you out now. Next time you're in, give him another smile and see how he reacts up close. If he's shy, tease him a little - we eat that shy stuff right up!
Don't stress, just live in your truth. If you think he's fine, lean into it sis! Worst case he's not interested, but from the sounds of it you may have snapped him up already. You got this!
He won't know unless you flirt with him.
i smiled tho
That counts.
no until u tell him