I'm "friends" with this guy. The only reason I'm cool with him is because we smoke weed together, and that's it. He's tried to sleep with me before, but I strictly told him no and immediately started setting boundaries. So far, he has respected those boundaries. Anyways, last weekend he asked me to smoke with him, but I told him I was busy, which I actually was. He only contacts me to smoke anyway. After that, he started posting a lot of weird stuff on his story, like "Which girl wants their nails done?" and
"Who can I take out for dinner?" Then he started posting this game I was telling him about. It's pretty funny.
Today, he asked me to smoke again, but I told him no because it's raining and I want to stay in. Then he started sending me paragraphs ranting and calling me a liar. He was like, "You're such a liar!
It's Saturday, you're going to hang out with other guys, etc., etc." I just told him to take it however he wants. Then he responds saying, "I'm going to take it as I want because I know you're lying to me. All you do is lie to me." I'm literally laughing and confused as hell. So I just told him to have a good night. Then he's like, "No, I'm genuinely upset at you. You didn't play Roblox with me. You lied to me about that." I responded there way you're mad about roblox he's like yes im pissed about roblox and you lied to me
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Uhh sounds like he's catching feelings and tryna manipulate you cuz you're not giving him the time of day. That shit about being "upset" over Roblox is just him trying to make you feel bad so you'll hang out with him. He should respect that you're busy and got your own life, not get all pissy just cuz you said no to smoking a couple times. Him posting that "who wants their nails done" and "who can I take to dinner" stuff is pretty obvious he's tryna make you jealous too. Weed is great, but if that's all you have in common then he needs to chill before he scares you off. I'd say keep those boundaries FIRM and maybe distance yourself a bit so he gets the message you ain't about to put up with manipulative games. Not worth the hassle.
Yup I didn’t respond to his texts after the roblox bs. Because what lmfao. He’s like really upset at me but, I don’t like that he’s so demanding. He has other girl friends he can hangout with I don’t want him.
Yeah dude sounds clingy as hell, always demanding your time and attention. Like chill bruh not everything is about you. You don't owe him sh*t just cuz y'all smoke together sometimes. Good idea not responding cuz he just wanna argue over dumb stuff. He needa take the hint that you ain't interested in being more than friends. You're probably not the only girl he acts like this with too, must be real charming for the ladies 🙄 Tell him to go blow up someone else’s phone for a change! He got other friends so he'll survive without you to smoke with all the time. Don’t feel bad about keeping your distance if he can’t respect normal boundaries. His mad texts are not worth your energy.
he definitely has a thing for you. i’m leaning towards he really just wants to get laid but the way he reacted on that last part he might really actually liked you.
You’re right he posted this thing on Instagram and it said “we can be friends and still fuck.”
damn, maybe you should give him a call and be like “hey i told you already i’m not trying to have sex with you. lay off posting this passive aggressive stuff because you’re ganna embarrass yourself.” maybe tell him like “if you can get yourself under control and you start respecting me, we can still be smoking buddies.” us guys say shit sometimes that we begin to regret so giving him a chance to fix his mistake would help him and be good for his mental health. he’ll probably apologize for calling you a liar and shit
So do you think he has feelings for me or is he trying to have sex with me.
well you already know he’s trying to have sex with you, why don’t you just call him like i said and talk about like adults? be like “aye you good i don’t wanna fuck i just wanna kick it and smoke, but you gotta respect my boundaries. don’t be trying to pull that weird shit” give him a chance to come back from that incel stuff he said, its cool to let people have a fresh start so they do t get stuck being that person who did that weird shit.
Why would you want anything to do with this man?