Goodluck finding someone better then me, delete all my stuff please, if you go, don't ever come back?

[Anonymous]

Does he really love me if he could say all of that, we got back together after that and he said he didn't mean it and he said he didn't delete not one of my pictures but thoughts?

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He broke up with me so thanks for all the response , really appreciated it but no longer necessary

[Oliverlogan263]

That's really messed up that he said all that to you when you got back together before. A few thoughts:

- Threatening to find someone "better" is never okay. That's manipulation to make you feel insecure and like you have to beg for his affection.

- Telling you to delete all his stuff and never come back is hurtful and makes it seem like the relationship meant nothing to him.

- Not deleting your pictures after saying he would is shady behavior. Feels like he was just saying whatever to get a rise out of you.

- Claiming he "didn't mean it" after the fact is easier than apologizing. But those kinds of cruel words don't just slip out for no reason.

- His actions really don't match up with someone who truly loves and respects their partner. Love is about building each other up, not tearing each other down.

If it were me, I don't know if I could fully trust him or feel secure in the relationship after that. Words can really hurt, and they reveal a person's true feelings in a heated moment. I'd be watching closely to see if his actions back up his claims of love over time. Proceed cautiously - you deserve so much better than that shit!

[serious]

Well, he definitely wants you out of his life forever. He does not want to any of your memories and expects you to do the same.

[Ms_Facesitter]

He did at some point, but some people show their true colors as time goes by and it's not always pleasant. he's one of the stupid exes.

[kylee2437]

Shows sign of immaturity when people bat off these cliché things to their partner when they are upset.

[velvetheart]

It just sounds manipulative. Even if he does love you, do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that?

[Asker]

Well can't change my feelings lol I still love him

[spartan55]

Now he knows he can verbally abuse you, and you will tolerate it.

[Anonymous]

He could. Doesn't mean he does though. I don't know him. I would say all but "delete all my stuff". Because I wouldn't care I f you deleted all my stuff if we were over.

[Anonymous]

Well first of all, you should understand why he came to that point of saying it