What to do when your not getting attention?

[Mia230]

My guy friend who I've been seeing has been slow on attention lately like responses and what not I know he gets busy with work but he's the only one I talk to everyday. I start feeling sad when he texts slow or sends memes but doesn't actually talk

[DarkWinterNights]

I think the bigger issue here is what other people have noted: “A guy friend I’ve been seeing”. If you’re having sex, but haven’t established you’re in a relationship, than you are in a situationship. Which is basically the make version of friendzoning. You need to figure out what the two of you are first, then discuss communication.

[Mia230]

Thanks, that's what I feel is going on. although I've asked him before and said he liked me but for now he sees me as basically a situationship and I'm not looking for that it's too confusing

[spartan55]

Who said being 'friends' with a girl is worth it? Sounds like you have a pretend boyfriend.

[Mia230]

Yeah lol sounds like it

[spartan55]

Why would any guy want that?

[CVNT5]

do you like him? does he mean something for you? or are you just worried about him? did you by any chance friendzone him?

[Mia230]

Yes I like him and he means a lot to me but I've had to put "friend" there because he hasn't explained what I am to him Just his boo whatever that means

[CVNT5]

you should tell him you like him and have feelings for him. ask if he likes you back romantically or just as a friend. then you might get a clear answer.

[Mia230]

I've made it clear I like him and he does too he just hasn't really said if he wants me as more

[CVNT5]

dam, he might not be ready for the comittment. you sure he's not playing around with other gals?

[Mia230]

He said he isn't and when he sees me and it gets intimate he says how long it's been since he got relieved lol plus he works a lot

[bowenw]

Find someone that gives you the attention you deserve.

[Billlewis]

Start a routine of tease and denial... that will get his attention;)

[HouseMoat]

guy "friend", you've been seeing. I didn't know you could "see", "guy friends"?

[Mia230]

he's a friend who's a guy lol but hasn't made it clear I'm more

[HouseMoat]

That's my point. I didn't know you could "see" "guy friends", LMAO

[Mia230]

Lol I know where your getting at but I feel I have to say guy friend since I've asked what are we and he went around the question

[HouseMoat]

Right, thats the point. Why are you wondering what you are if you're "just friends", that's the point

[Mia230]

Because he does and says more than friends things that's my point