What do you do when you want some love and attention?

Question

🤷‍♀️ Just what really. Those days when you just need a little boost to the mood.

YohoHsuh · Accepted Answer

Jus come to me bby. I can give you all the love you want

Lol but in all seriousness, it shouldn't be difficult for you since your a girl... Most guys are desperate... Jus ask people in your area online through Facebook or something to come chill with you... Or someone on the street if your brave enough... Or invite a friend over a friend who you fancey... Doubt any guys would reject you

It's a lot harder for guys to get affection from opposite sex so be glad your a girl... I couldn't get any affection even if I climbed a mountain for it 😞😭

CuriousJC · Accepted Answer

Well, whenever I get to that point I normally just hug my brother and sister until my mother tells me to leave them alone. I tell my mother to not ruin the sibling moment but then she gets angry and starts cursing at me. I used to have a dog name Crystal, and whenever she wants some attention and love she she literally lays on my lap while I'm playing my video game on the edge of my bed on the floor.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

Communicate with the source of your desire. It’s amazing what happens when you declare your intentions, and ask nicely. :)
It made me smile the men in here with their cats. This fits true even with them. Wiggle your finger calmly at them.. irresistible. Snuggle time.

enbyofenvy · Accepted Answer

I go online and find a stranger to invite over for the night. Its quite easy and to say it takes minimal effort would be an understatement.

YourFutureEx · Answer

I feed some street dogs and they give me unconditional love and attention in return every day.

Apart from that, I try to stay busy so that I don't need love and attention. Having a lot of work, hobbies and self care habits help.

DJB72 · Answer

I generally look to be self-sufficient. Music helps, certain foods too. If it HAS to be another person I just spend time with my son. He's 3 and very affectionate!

ZackBan · Answer

I get the superficial attention of someone I met on a dating app.
I know they just want sex usually and most of the time so do I. But it helps make me feel less lonely when I'm having a cardio workout with someone

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Show them the kind of love & attention I'd want. For example, I'll go to my husband and give him the kind of attention I'm seeking and hope he'll reciprocate similarly.

genericname85 · Answer

Nothing. Cause the only option that you have as a man is: suck it up buttercup...

loveslongnails · Answer

Call a phone sex operator and have her lie to me. :)

tatianamay · Answer

Come on GaG, bash a bunch of trolls, and BOOM, I get attention and hate, but I also befriend a couple of people hahah

Ukrainianbuddafly · Answer

I'm spoiled so I snuggle up to my boyfriend and tell him I'm ready for him to love me now. Lol.

mooky06 · Answer

If I had a boyfriend I would probably jump (topple) all over him. Kind of annoy him for a bit so i can get attention and love lol

If i’m at home.. watch a soppy romantic movie. Talk to friends or family. Things like that :)

Michael49 · Answer

If you are asking physically: I like to come up behind her, put my hands on her hips, kiss her on the neck, then pull her into me so she can feel how much she turns me on

TrueConfection · Answer

I head for the bedroom and tell my hubby to bring his raincoat. 😉

Anonymous · Answer

Love and attention.. hmm.. i demand from my husband to grab me sexually and fuck me even if he's not in the mood. There are times he just won't fuck me so I go shopping. That cheers me up.

TwistedSukuna · Answer

I don't have anyone who's opinion I value a lot atm so I just try to improve at stuff I like doing, I get a little mood bump whenever I see visible improvement in myself, whether it's in the games I play or practicing drawing in AutoCAD

Anonymous · Answer

Easy. I go and hire a courtesan ☺ I love girls. I want them. I treat them with care even as a client.

Phoenix98 · Answer

If I have a girlfriend at the time well I'll go and get it from her obviously, verbal, physical both, doesn't matter. Probably kiss her or annoy her, bribe whatever is most effective at getting some love and affection/attention lol.

Anonymous · Answer

You start dating a girl and you treat her in worst imaginable way without being rude and antagonistic. Of course you have to behave rude in bed room. This causes in lot of girls some kind of Stockholm syndrome. You can exploit them as long it lasts, then you start ghosting.

KingofCups · Answer

I try to go places where I can meet new people and socialize. I personally prefer places where I can dance. Nightclubs, music feativals, live music, Jazz houses, House Parties, etc.

chapawapa · Answer

Watch TV and forget about it... im not that in need of it I can wait it out for something meaningful

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

I arrive home and say "Honey I am home". My wife is currently working at home office, so when I arrive from work she always comes to me with a smile, a kiss and all the love in the world.

Finchie40 · Answer

Put myself out there and hoping a girl catches my bait , Girls usually have it easier in this department cuz guys don’t usually say No lol

OnTheLevel · Answer

I give love and attention to my wife and hope she reciprocates.

douride2 · Answer

For the past few years that has been totally of the menu for me here.

tomtom05131 · Answer

Watch a crappy Hallmark movie since i don’t have a female partner to turn too. Otherwise just bury myself in projects around the house

jshm2 · Answer

Don't really know, as I get plenty of both. But I suppose I would hustle a bit harder in the network.

GingerGuy · Answer

Which for me is everyday lol. I try to distract myself because I'm not getting it, so no sense focusing on it. Some days harder than others.

Anonymous · Answer

Play online with my group of friends. They love me and appreciate me and playing with them is always a good time, not to mention the ego boost because they're 4 girls and we all flirt back and forth.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I leave my hair open and wear a cute dress that shows my figure. That works pretty well.

na2398 · Answer

Never experienced that from anyone apart from my parents so I hug them 😊 I know there's someone out there for me who'd value my presence. Sending you lots of love and positivity ❤️

gag2021 · Answer

I usually call my sister, or a friend. My dog helps when nobody is around.

nice-girl · Answer

Do my hair at the salon

Furrylover123 · Answer

I try everything to make contact with friends or even new people on the internet it's just helps to speak

Cryptoanonne · Answer

Fish for it online lollll

jasco · Answer

I go talk to my friends or family. I don't have a girlfriend so that's about as good as I am gonna get.

Jem38 · Answer

I keep on calling him and can't stop talking. I just wanna see him laughing. I am the most talkative 😂

Anonymous · Answer

GRAB HER BY THE PUSSY! lol jk I'm a gentlemen. I don't know I have to do without in between time with my girl. really sucky!

Ironic_Method · Answer

I tell my wife or girlfriend that I want attention.

Youdumbeotch · Answer

I get nude on camera when my husband not home and entertain strangers online for compliments and tips

Toldol2 · Answer

I give full attention to myself

stuntbrain · Answer

I can't imagine being so insecure and needy

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Men don't have many options on this front.

EQisKEY · Answer

I make zero effort to hide my dick print and talk to women wherever I am at.

varan69 · Answer

I say u get pretty (more) and just act as u with a little bit of cuteness lol

noohair · Answer

Women that don't look down on everyone and smile at people attract my attention.

Elliegirl · Answer

I flirt with my husband.

Anonymous · Answer

I do not look for love female love is fake  they have forgotten GOD  so here is some money  shake that ass  and get out once im done

whatfor84 · Answer

i seek and i get it :)) its not hard to get it for you i guess

sattii2607 · Answer

Well all i need to do is hang my face in despair my wife makes sure I cheer up again

Anonymous · Answer

just sit on his lap and tell him you want him. You will get love and attention

Kelly6 · Answer

i flirt or act naughty

ewok737 · Answer

Get out the full size sex doll !!!

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Make food for people to try.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

It's a self destruction path

jgibsonian1986 · Answer

Like, nothing. Stall until tomorrow

Jenni95 · Answer

If to clubs nice dress. At The Beach a bikini.

Juxtapose · Answer

I hug my girlfriend or my cats.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Post a sexy pic here 😍

bowenw · Answer

Text or call a friend or family member.

princeofromance · Answer

Find yourself a man.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

i think you're hot

Manly4 · Answer

I wear a speedo and swim

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