What do you do when you’re in need of affection but you’re single?

[Anonymous]

Asking for a friend lmao

[mandyfire98]

Just depends on your view of things. One sure fire way is to hook up. That would absolutely take care of it.

[Screenwriter]

I think this is the worst way to lift loneliness. You get a thrill for 20 minutes from an orgasm and when the person leaves you're lonely again. Sex is not friendship or love. Those are two things that alleviate loneliness. Genuine caring feelings toward you. Those come from people invested in you. Not strangers.

[mandyfire98]

She wants affection. She didn't say from where. She just needs quick affection. That's a sure fire way to get it. She can absolutely cuddle with a hook up. Is it permanent? No.

But how would you suggest she gets affection from a guy?

[mandyfire98]

@LostandFound__x

I'm guessing this in relation to affection in the romantic intimate sense? That's why you specifically said you were single?

[Asker]

Yup!

[Screenwriter]

uI suggest she give herself affection and self-care and wait until she can find a genuine person who she likes and who likes her. "Quick" affection might end up leaving you
feeling like you've imbibed fast food: dissatisfied at the low quality and with indigestion. Who needs that?

[mandyfire98]

Nobody needs indigestion but this isn't food. It's sex and cuddling. Could she feel unsatisfied? That would depend on who she spends the night with. It would also depend on if she is emotionally mature enough to take sex for what it is in that situation and
Get what she needs out of it in that moment. She might be perfectly ok to handle it.

There's nothing wrong with hooking up sometimes. Sex isn't always about finding a boyfriend. It can be for fun sometimes. Maybe not for everyone but some people can handle it and enjoy the physical pleasure only.

She might enjoy it and be perfectly fine not having any strings attached. People do it all the time.

[Screenwriter]

I've done it and find it dissatisfying. But, I suppose someone might be OK with it. I think it's a losing proposition though. If I did that every time I felt lonely, I'd have to run through a lot of hookups. Doesn't sound safe or practical to me.

[Screenwriter]

Do the best to be kind and loving to yourself. Treat yourself to niceties: a new outfit, a pedicure/manicure, a haircut or color, a movie, a weekend trip.

Hang out with a good friend or your family and get a hug. Watch a stupid movie and cry it out.

If you take the time to take care of yourself, lonely times pass. We all feel that way at on and off.

[ohsheeT]

This is a very good question cuz right now in this moment that's what I'm looking for LOL I've gone from app to app to app and I just can't seem to find but I'm looking for I guess it drives me crazy that's what I do is I go crazy I think no I don't know

[Decoded93]

Get a friend with benefits, but limit the benefits if you don't want sex, just do cuddles and kissing if you want to

[Asker]

Do some people actually do that?

[Decoded93]

I've done it, I'm sure others do, it's fun!

[Asker]

Wow interesting

[Decoded93]

I think you'd love it!

[RyanK9b]

I cuddle with my dog. But my dog is dead since 2 years.. So I tried booze. It makes you feel warm and fuzzy. But the after effects are not good, need to search for something else

[Asker]

Aw I’m sorry about your dog

[zero444440000]

easy. go to reddit/hentai or go to reddit/ecchi and look att all the art there. or go to skittykat's website and listen to some boyfriend/girlfriend audio roleplays.

[Deformate]

Instead of 'asking for a friend' why dont you just ask a friend?

[Anemone978]

Masturbate with a friend online.. lol

[Jennz6]

I do that too lol

[eagle1951]

get hugs from Church

[Asker]

Haha good one

[Byuser]

A We can be friends if you want

[Asker]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

no idea about that one

[Jennz6]

I go shopping

[Anonymous]

Stroke your dolphin 🤣

[Jmmmfi4]

Wish I knew