He invited me to a lounge?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy I met while shopping at the Apple Store. After talking for a bit we exchanged numbers. We’ve been texting since Thursday (2 days ago). He’s kind of a dry texter. He invited me to a bar then when I said I don’t drink he offered us to go to a lounge instead (even though there’s drinks there too he said he likes it for the music aspect). I’m not much of a nightlife person and him wanting to do something nightlife related makes me think he might just want sex. What do you guys think?

[Mr_twoface]

When going on dates with men, always make the assumption that he wants to have sex! Most guys/men out there hope to get lucky at the end of a date, yet it doesn't mean the conversation is not going to be polite and delightful nor that he will stir the conversation towards sex. In the end of it all, it's your call.

A lounge is indeed a nice place to go to not only for the music and finger food but also a place you can chill and have drink without feeling the pressure of drinking like you would in a bar atmosphere. For some, alcoholic drink is something they need to ease the mood and relax and that's why he may have suggested a lounge.

Hope you'll have a nice evening! xx

[Asker]

Thank you opinion owner and I agree with Periodot here. The amount of men I meant who were in it for just sex is insane.

[Asker]

It’s hard to tell whether a guy just wants you for sex or not.

[Mr_twoface]

Once you have gone on a spree of dates, you will get hang of it. You will notice the questions they ask especially the personal ones, you will notice how friendly touchy they can get and how their attitude changes throughout the late hours of the date.

I used to tell my girl-friends that once on a date and they have a doubt if he wants sex or really wants to get to know you, then at the end of it ask straightforward the question: "This was fun, your cute, want to have sex?" follow that with a cheeky smile. If the guy says YES... then tell him okej, after next date and then you dumb his ass (UNLESS you really want to have sex with him lol)... IF he says that would be nice but lets go on a few more dates... then do that and see how it goes. Here we may have a potential gentleman.

[Asker]

That’s such a smart idea

[spartan55]

Uh... nightlife=only wants sex? I would love where you girls get these wild ideas. So you haven't gone out with this guy on one date. Yet you are ready to determine that he only wants sex? Does that seem logical at all?
Newsflash: ALL guys want sex, some want the relationship that goes along with it.

[Peridot25]

And that’s the thing! We don’t know what your intentions are when we first meet you. Is that so bad?

[spartan55]

We don't know what yours are either? My point is you are willing to forget him based on your assumptions and how you think he will treat you. Girls do this frequently and it's mind boggling.

[Peridot25]

Because we’re scared.

[Peridot25]

We’re not going to blindly trust you until you give us a reason we should.

[spartan55]

What do you mean by blindly trust? So the solution is to make gross inaccurate assumptions about a guy to protect yourself. That's ridiculous. You can trust someone without making yourself vulnerable.

[Peridot25]

If you went out with a woman, what would your first thought be? That she’s just with you for your money, right?

[spartan55]

Why would I think that?

[Peridot25]

Because that’s what a majority of women are after. You can never know.

[spartan55]

The 'majority'? Lol... I don't think so. I've encountered one woman in the many I've dated that was a gold digger. She got flushed out very quickly.

[moneymagnet24]

Its no brainer he want sex

[KrakenAttackin]

He's an Apple guy so he is certainly gay 😂😂😂