My boyfriend always preferred us being around others Is that bad?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend, My sister and I get drunk every single day. His ideal "date" is us all going to the club, the bar and Out to eat (sometimes) to also get food and oh, DRINKS!. We barely ever by ourselves on a romantic date. It's always us with others. His own family members don't even come around. Its always my friends and MY family who's hanging with us. Is this bad? Plus he's not even friends with me on Facebook. I saw his page and it's filled with half naked women, strippers etc. I tried to record him multiple times and he said he doesn't want me on his page nor want to be shown on mine. Since we've been together, he always preferred us being around others Smh. I do not know what's wrong with him.

[Anonymous]

I'll be blunt - you're doomed.

This was the case for me with my ex-girlfriend. I confronted her multiple times. Her only excuse was - "I don't want to be seen as those clingy couple in public who can't stay a min apart". My only concern was that we were always apart 🤣. The very few times we got to meet each other, she'd always involve others and pay more attention to them than me. It felt as if I bored her. I did bring this up multiple times, but it was of no use. Ultimately she did dump me when we moved to different cities. "Can't do long distance". Fair enough. You couldn't even do short distance.

That's just how it is. Priorities matter. You can be busy morning till night, living in different timezones, but if you're important, they'll give you priority. If not then you'll only get excuses. And unfortunately, it's doomed.

[laly520]

not ok

u r his girlfriend not his friend

[katiesmuff]

I'd be having a very serious talk with this guy!