If a guy who you had issues with follows you first on social media, should you follow back just to Show that it is no bad blood?

[Anonymous]

[Quogha]

Only if you want to. It’s just social media, it doesn’t have to be taken so seriously. Live your life and don’t panic over who’s following who on the telewebs!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It depends, if he's emotional and all over the place, just cut the motherfucker out ya life

[Asker]

I don’t know what he is like currently because we haven’t spoke in like 3 years

[Alex-Snow]

I would not unless u like him or want to.

[Asker]

If I wanted to does that show him that I like him?

[Alex-Snow]

It would show that you are interested on what he is up to or doing , but not necessarily mean that you like him. Has ur opinion of him changed? Do u like him at all? How old is he?

[Asker]

It’s been 3 years since we last talked so I’m sure he isn’t the same person now that he was then. The problem was always I didn’t like him romantically but as a friend. He followed me first so I thought following him back would show him that I have no hard feelings. If I remember I think he is 26 or 28 years old.

[Alex-Snow]

Following him as a friend sounds ok to me. See how it goes

[Asker]

Okay if he reaches out to me, what would be the best response? Tell him I’m not interested or simply ignore him?

[Alex-Snow]

Find out how his life is going... sound interested. If the past is difficult to talk about just focus on the present. Tell him you would like to stay in touch if he wants to.

[Asker]

Okay got it. He messaged me and asked if my phone number was the same and I said yes. After he asked if it was okay if he could text me. I didn’t respond because I was unsure how to. We haven’t talked since

[Alex-Snow]

It is only a text... are you seeing anyone at the moment that might get jealous?

[Asker]

I just got out of a relationship

[Alex-Snow]

Sorry 2 hear that. Hang in there... message me if u ever want to just chat. I still think it would be ok to text the guy to start out with?

[Asker]

Is it on me to reach out to him at this point or I could wait to see if he texts again?

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe wait a day so u don't seem desperate (which ur not) and then buzz him a text asking how his week is going. Or what's new in his life etc. keep it casual and open ended.

[Joker_]

no 󠀡󠀡

[Asker]

Why not?