If you had issues with a guy and he hasn't apologized but is requesting to follow you on social media, what should you do?

[Anonymous]

[naartjie]

You ignore it. Delete it even. I’m honestly so annoyed with myself for all the times I let silly guys like that stick around longer than they should’ve.

[Asker]

What if I follow him back?

[naartjie]

Girl…you don’t! If you do then don’t sit and talk about having issues with him when you let him do it and don’t hold him accountable.

[Asker]

I understand but what if it's been years and I've moved on. What if I'm indifferent towards him?

[naartjie]

Still ignore it? Accepting it shows you’re allowing something to come from it. My last comment on it would be to leave it. Nothing will change. If you’ve moved on then act like it.

[Asker]

Okay

[Berweic]

I don't care, I won't accept her follow request, I will delete her from my life.

[Asker]

Did you mean to say "him"?

[Berweic]

Yess

[Asker]

Okay what if it's been years and you moved on?

[Anonymous]

Ignore it

[Asker]

What if it's been years and I moved on?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you're letting by gone's be by gone's? If that's the case If you're comfortable adding him then do it. But don't be surprised if he un adds you. He might just want to see what you've been up to

[Asker]

Exactly. If I moved on and I'm letting bygones be bygones, I still wonder if following him even makes sense.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm saying bygones be bygones about the issues with the guy. You not needing an apology from him.

[Asker]

I understand what you're saying. At this point I don't need an apology but what would be the intentions of following back?

[Opinion Owner]

Whose intentions? Yours or his? Don't expect much of anything

[Asker]

I know his intentions which are most likely to reconnect. My intentions would be to follow back just to be nice. I'm not sure if I want to possibly give him the wrong idea

[Opinion Owner]

Okay so decline his froend request

[Asker]

On TikTok you can't even decline his friend request, you have to remove them as a follower

[Opinion Owner]

Either remove him or block him or just ignore him all together

[Asker]

Okay