Guys, am I really that disgusting?

[Anonymous]

I have been insecure about my body my whole life, and I work out regularly. I know that I am not the thinnest, but the BMI says that I am of normal weight (23).

Men on social media post that if you are a "big thing", then they do not want you to look in their direction at all. That if you weigh over 60 kg / 132 pounds then you are disgusting and therefore not allowed to participate in social activities. That they become nauseous from fat girls, that they do not date fat girls.

This results in me not daring to approach anyone, not even with the intention of a friendly chat.

I have myself been called ugly and fat and disgusting by boys, even though I am classified as "normal weight".

Guys, am I really that awful?

[teamvic]

Mmmm well it's impossible to say without actually seeing you but I will say this, if you really are in your weight range, For your height. Then you're not fat those people are just hating

The internet can be a dangerous thing depending on how much you listen to it and also the people you talk to there

I can say don't listen to them but that's a lot easier said than done

What I will say is if you continue to take everything someone says to heart, you'll never be happy with or about yourself.

Find a way to fix it

[Whitey_Johnson]

Hard to say without seeing you, but I have seen some sloppy bodies that were in the nornal BMI range. Try reducing carbs to less than 20 grams per day, eating more fatty meat, and do all your daily eating within an 8 hour window for 30 days, then get back to me.

[MrOracle]

Unless you are 4'6" tall, you can't be much if any overweight at 132 pounds. Okay, maybe if you are 5', that might be a few extra pounds, but not so many that most guys would run away.

in my opinion, you should focus more on your personality and being the other things that men want, because I suspect your looks aren't your problem. Guys don't require that you're a 9+ out of 10 in looks - plenty of guys would happily date a girl who is 4 or 5 out of 10 if she has a good personality and good morals and values.

[Yannae]

You don't have to, of course. I am but a stranger online, and a guy, to top it all off. But If you should share me a picture of what you look like, we can break it down. Because I don't think you're awful.

[Twalli]

I don't care if a girl is fat, if she just wants to be a friend.
I'm not the type of person who only becomes friends with girls I want to date. I only became friends with two girls I wanted to date and I don't recall having that feeling before we were friends.
My girlfriend is over 160 lbs, and only 5'4".

[Billlewis]

Please tell us exactly how much you weigh, Goddess, because I have a feeling that you're much more attractive than you might think. Really. To me, women are like fish -- the small ones I throw back ❤️

[Anonymous]

No, you're not disgusting at all. You are just insecure, which is normal for both men and women. We just tend to be insecure about different things about our bodies.

But for some reason women tend to shame men for talking about their most common bodily insecurity.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Not fat if that's your BMI. You are listening to assholes.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No you're not disgusting, but your choice of sites you go to clearly are if they are making you feel so damaged!

[Paul_in_Indy]

Be brave and send a pic. I imagine we can affirm you…if we see you.

[DarkLegacy]

Can't say for sure without seeing what you look like but if enough people say it, then it must be true.

[Anonymous]

No. BMI is extremely inaccurate. It doesn't do a good job taking account for muscle.

[Pohjolan]

Its not like we can see you through the screen but guys are not that picky.

[subwayperson]

Yes you are disgusting

[Danny_dan92]

No picture.




No know

[jjj101010]

Not seen u. Hard to say