Is this disgusting or no?

[Anonymous]

So a guy i met and talk to he seems nice and everything but he doesn't drive or have a job but he's looking. We live in two completely different states. I am kinda feeling sometype of way at the moment. He told me he jerked off the other day while we were on call, but he said he muted and didn't show anything of course i guess it was when i was sleeping. But it kinda made me feel disgusted? Am I weird for feeling this way? Like I don't know is this worth cutting things off?

we slept called and he told me "it was okay though cause I muted and didn't have my cam on"

I felt so disgusted and right then and there It showed me that he was like every man. I looked at him highly cause he is a family man and takes care of his nephew and has a good relationship with his mom and dad.

But this was something that was disgusting in my opinion.

[HollyK21]

Respectfully girl what are you doing? Why are you even wasting your time? First off this dude has no car, so how is he supposed to do his part when it comes to seeing you? Will the responsibility just fall fully on your shoulders? Let’s say he takes a train, plane or an uber, will you be responsible for funding that? “Well he’s looking for a job”, is he? You don’t know how long he’s genuinely been not only looking for work but unemployed. For all you know he could be lying about the timeline of that, saying what he needs to say to make himself look less pathetic.


Let’s say he really is looking for a job, how much effort is he really putting into that and who knows when he will find something, because there’s no timeframe on when that’ll happen. I don’t know, maybe you aren’t in the most desirable position yourself so your standards aren’t too high and you aren’t being so picky; regardless of that it’s just downright silly to continue on with a man who has absolutely nothing to bring to the table. Who’s a horndog on top of that. Lol just do better, this is just so undesirable.

[judehere]

this is so disgusting, unless both parties agree and are aware it is assault

[Asker]

Yeah I agree!

[judehere]

girl run

[Asker]

he's now claiming it was a joke.

But wtf who jokes even about that.

[judehere]

nooo run for real, it's not a joke

[Anonymous]

That's a little weird if you didn't communicate sexually like that before.

[DonaldDarko]

Nope that's disgusting and he's a loser who wants something for nothing.

[Asker]

Thank you. I appreciate your advice. I know what my decision is now on what to do. I am glad I heard it from a mans perspective.

[DonaldDarko]

Sure no problem.

[Asker]

I confronted him on it and he said "i was kidding" but he told me the other day he did it and I dont ever recall him ever saying he was kidding but as even a joke its weird.

[DonaldDarko]

Of course its weird, he's let sex take over his life he lives for his weird kinks, doesn't want a job or a car. He's useless, God only knows what other kind of bizarre garbage is in his mind. Often you'll find sex offenders with habits like this.

[Asker]

Its mind boggling. I am always finding the shitty men.

[DonaldDarko]

There are a lot of them around, nature only goes as far as it has to. I don't bother with women or relationships. When I was young in southern California the women were disgusting there. It was a lonely life

[Daytoday79]

Yeah disgusting he can't even control himself

[spartan55]

Inappropriate of him to say that.

[chase_strickland800]

He’s a perv I’d stay away from him

[In_Trance]

Lame