Why would a guy believe he is not good enough for a girl and refrain from approaching her?

[Anonymous]

[NewgodOmega]

All guys these days know that if they approach a girl she would definitely surely reject him and humiliate him to the worst level just coz she can feel that sense of power and ego massage herself. That's why men never approach women anymore coz they already know how it will end

[spoole]

What do you mean not good enough? She us an A list actress with everything? A 10 model? Sure, some hot women are unwanted because of the baggage and difficulty to reach them outweighs the potential joy to be gained from trying.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because he knows it can't go anywhere. Even if he lands the first date he has plotted it out and knows he doesn't have everything in place to retain her interest (job, money, status). So why go through the heart ache of getting attached only to have her bolt.

[Anonymous]

Yor premise is wrong. Unless the guys is young it's not that he believes he's not good enough. There is no point in approaching a woman who is showing no interest in him. Save for when he's a guy that just hits on anything he wants to nail. Because at that point it's not about genuine interest.

[Billlewis]

Oh, I feel that way all the time; that's one reason why I became a pay pig, so I can have relationships with beautiful women whom I know I'm not worthy even to kiss the feet of.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

@Billlewis good boy.

[Billlewis]

@BlissfullyCurSed Yes, Sir, thank you very much.

[Senn__0x]

😭 is this sarcasm or real 🤡
Lmaooooo

[BlissfullyCurSed]

@Senn__0x he is very real.

[Billlewis]

@Senn__0x Oh, I assure you that this is exactly how I feel about most of the women whom I come into contact with... including you, to be honest. I mean, you're laughing at me, aren't you? So, no, it's not sarcasm❤️

[Senn__0x]

Not laughing
I'm pitying you
Which is even worse?

[Billlewis]

@Senn__0x You don't need to feel sorry for me, Goddess -- I'm very very happy this way, and so are the women I serve 🤗

[Senn__0x]

😂😂😂 good for you

[Billlewis]

@Senn__0x Yes, ma'am, thank you very much. I just started following you and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow me, as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[TheorionMage]

LIFE Experience... we are ALL the products of our life experiences up until that encounter.
We 'see' ourselves as a reflection of Other's subconscious responses TO our attentions~

[Finchie40]

Because most people are their own worst enemy and think nobody will like them , especially someone they find attractive and beautiful , they are afraid of being denied so they don’t take the chance

[andreasderjuengere]

"Not good enough" isn't the right term, I think.
Isn't it more about incompatibility in life habits and/or arrangements, where otherwise the (mutual?) attraction is present?

[Pohjolan]

Could be multiple reasons like his bank account might be low if that's the reason.

Mind you that we are living in a post Metoo society and men have been disincintivised to approach women.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I had a crush on a girl who also seemed to like me. I wanted to wait until I was in a better place to approach her. I waited too long.

[lucas262]

Iv always thought getting with me would he a mistake so iv rarely tried. Iv definitely walked away from potential gfs

[Anonymous]

Im like that too, I lack confidence and know im not good looking.

[laly520]

sounds like case of insecurity

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Insecurity is the word you seek.

[Joker_]

he is homosexual

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's unsure she likes him

[sheikalana]

Insecurity.