Why wouldn't a guy approach a girl he really likes?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

There's many type of guys out there but they all have a couple things in common the first one is


If I talk to her what happens if I like her and if I like her that means I have to take her out on a date or take her someplace how am I going to do that if I don't have a job or no money I better not ask her

Every guy on this site has said that to themselves at least once or twice

The next one is if I go talk to her what happens if I like her and she likes me and then I have to be responsible that I have to have money to take her places then I have to commit to her I think I'll just hang out with my friends instead you don't need a job you don't need nothing to do that LOL
This is the second thing that goes through a guy's head especially your age

This is why girls should approach guys more you start talking to him and you can get the fill who is what is all about or even if he wants to commit or take you someplace because you can ask him if he has a job you can ask him if he's responsible ask him if he likes pets kids that will tell you a lot about a guy if you don't approach you might not ever get asked so I would say approach

[TNTitleBelt1]

Could be a number of reasons but one of the BIGGEST reasons a guy might not approach you is if you're always with a group of friends. It can be intimidating to a guy, to try and approach a girl who's always with someone because it makes it feel like we have to impress them all, and that's not what we're tryina do, at least at that moment.

Try to get away from the group for a little bit and see if he does. If he still doesn't, it's likely another reason that's probably out of your control at that point (probably more of a confidence thing with him, than anything you're doing)

Hey, for some reason, I have no idea since I didn't do anything wrong, my profile was deleted. I know you're anonymous and likely don't want to be found but would you follow me. It would make my day if you did! :)

[Changiis07]

Different reasons, some are shy, some don’t know how. Some get rejected and don’t want to get rejected. Lots if reasons

[LazerBean]

If he does actually like you, he may have poor social skills or not be adequately assertive to make a move.

[TNTitlebelt]

Could be a number of reasons, so I can't pinpoint it if I don't know you but, for example if you're always around a group of friends, it makes it a little more difficult because then it makes it feel like they're judging you or that you have to impress them all at the same time.

So, if you want him to approach you, try getting away from the group, and see if he does. That was it's a little less pressure.

Hey, I know you're anonymous and probably don't want to be found but, would you follow me, pleaseee. I will follow you back.

[serious]

Well if he is of shy type then he will not approach. The other reason can be if the the woman is really beautiful or gorgeous then he will think she is already taken or must be already taken and hence backs off automatically.

[wa1t1ngFuture]

factors such as "do I have money? ... is my family equal to him?"

[Bambalicious]

It says you’re under 18 so I’m going to assume that he is too….
He may just be shy.

[exitseven]

He is scared to death of rejection or embarrassment.

[Asker]

But what if he did it to other girls before?

[exitseven]

okay- sometimes I guy likes a girl so much it can be really frightening and confusing to actually getting the courage to confront both her and himself.

[Valso]

I don't know about other guys but I know about me - because I already know what she's gonna say: "I like you only as a friend" which in translation from Female means "You're not rich enough for me".

[jshm2]

Because she's either not giving the right vibes or someone else has dibbs.

[ColHathi]

Same reason you wouldn't approach a guy you like, I'm sure. Fear of rejection for whatever reason. That reason could be anything.

[Anonymous]

Probably because you’ll get onto the internet and start complaining about guys hitting on you.

[dolemite89]

she's not friendly or approachable, like girls with resting bitch face

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want to risk getting cancelled by the bullshit false female victim culture.

[pass_the_celery98]

afraid of rejection, wants to avoid drama

[Esperanto]

He needs a little push from the girl.

[Chill_Meta]

There's a whole list of reasons as to why not

[Luckycharms12]

Shy, doesn't want be turned down loads of reasons

[lofii]

Maybe he's just not that into yiu

[CloudMassacre]

I’m not ready

[Iron_Man]

shy guy