Why do men stare at me if I’m not their type physically/they are not that into me?

[Anonymous]

And no I have nothing in my face, nor am I obnoxiously loud or ugly

[TommyMountainFigure]

What feature (s) do you have that single you out from other women?

I ask because if that is happening to you, then it is definitely happening for a reason!

[Asker]

I don't know I’m Asian

[TommyMountainFigure]

We have lots of Asian People where i live. That doesn't seem to be a reason why people would stare!

[boggboss]

How do u know u are not their type

[Asker]

Because their ex girlfriends are all tall skinny blondes and I am the exact opposite

[boggboss]

Why do u think that's the only thing they can be attracted too?

[boggboss]

Seems silly to think they can only be attracted to that 1 type of women

[Asker]

Then why do they follow only one type of woman on Instagram and only date them?

[Asker]

Also he said I was not his type but he still stares

[boggboss]

If he constantly stairs and its not because he is a ass and thinks u look hideous which would have him laughing also it tends to mean he is intrested or attracted

[Asker]

Then why did he reject me several times?

[boggboss]

U asked him out and he rejected u

[Asker]

Yes, why if he is attracted to men?

[boggboss]

Maybe he looks because he knows your attracted to him I guess

[Asker]

Isn’t that a bit desperate? To constantly take quick glances for months and tell their friends about it if he doesn’t find me attractive? I mean I can imagine, I just think it’s pathetic given the fact that I’ve been ignoring him for months

[boggboss]

Sure I guess but if u know he is not attracted to you why be botherd by it ignore him and move on

[Asker]

Because he is teasing me and acting nervous even. He followed me to the subway after I glanced at him once just for validation. It bothers me because his best friend told me that he likes every girl that pays him attention so if he doesn’t like me that must mean he must consider me super ugly

[boggboss]

OK and why do u care what he thinks when u stated he Is desperate

[Asker]

Just told you. If even desperate men don’t want me what does it tell about me?

[boggboss]

Nothing it means this 1 desperate guy rejected u to be fair why wpuld u want to date a desperate guy in the first place

[Asker]

Why would a desperate guy reject me? Also I’m prettier than most of the girls he liked

[boggboss]

I dono maybe he is intimidated maybe he likes the attention but don't like you

[boggboss]

If u think u are prettier then the other girls he dated why are u so botherd by his rejection

[Asker]

Because of that reason and also because he did it a bit rudely

[boggboss]

Why does it matter u having been obsessing over him for the last few weeks move on his opinion don't matter