I dont know if its a good or a bad thing because on one hand I feel like its good that I'm not being bothered by random men. But on the other hand I think "what does that say about me that I get such a distant vibe from most guys?" What I mean is that under normal circumstances men are much more open to talking to other women than they seem to be with me. I can't relate to being catcalled or approached by random men regularly, guys dont jump in my inbox asking to fuck, guys rarely even talk to me. But they do stare. I notice at least 10 random guys staring at me a day, as if I have grown an extra head! Its very obvious and sometimes I think"is their something on my face? Why do people stare at me so much but nobody ever talks to me? Whats wrong with me why do I experience this so much?" Im pretty good looking, I'm in shape and my clothes always fit, and I dress pretty well. Like I think nothing really stands out about me for guys to stare at me SO much to the point that its noticeable. And I'm not saying its important, I just wonder why so many other women can relate that people approach them whereas peoppe usually just stare at me. My friends and family members can attest that guys always come up to them when they are just minding their business, whereas with myself if Im minding my business guys won't say anything to me. What does that say?
Why do men just stare at me? Why do guys approach most women but act distant towards me?
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