I'm a Hispanic woman that loves Caucasian men. I'll tell you my reasons why I find Caucasian men attractive.
1. Gentlemen- They will treat you like a queen. On top of that they conduct themselves with class and education. For example: if a man looks at their woman they don't jump and immediately beat up the guy. They let it go but they will beat up the guy if the guy touches his woman by grabbing her like a piece of meat. Not to mention, that they're very romantic and still look extremely manly at the same time while they're romancing you. Also, they're loyal to the core!
2. Brains- they're so smart! I can not tell how attractive that is!!! All I can say is that it turns me on.
3. Their physical appearance- their light skin, color eyes & blonde hair are so attractive. They don't necessarily need to have all of those physical attributes at once but just having one of those characteristics is good enough to attract any Hispanic woman.
4. Manly- they're hard working and just so manly in their manner. They're responsible and take responsibility for the children they have. Not to mention, they walk with confidence not cockiness (So Sexy).
5. Lover- Last but certainly not least, they make great lover in the bedroom! That's pretty much all I can say about that except mind blowing!
I want you to keep this in mind that this is my opinion of why I find caucasian men so attractive. So, if you're a Caucasian man reading this and love Hispanic women. I strongly encourage you to not be afraid to go up to a Hispanic woman and make your move. If your afraid because of the language barrier don't worry we speak English too expect the women that come directly from Mexico. Let me make it easier on you men if you come up to us and say hi and we respond back with a hi instead of a hola you're golden.
The thing about Latinos is that, yes, we're Latino, but we're also white, black, Native American and even Asian (Latino isn't a race, it's a cultural identity) -- believe it or not, we have as many racial issues in Latin-America as you do in the U. S. -- so who a Latina woman finds attractive may depend not only on where her family comes from, but also what her racial make-up is (whether she's a Zoe Saldana, a Sofia Vergara or an Alexis Bledel -- all Latinas and all of dramatically varied racial backgrounds). Some Latino cultures are more "Eurocentric" (such as Argentina, Uruguay, Chile, of course, Spain), and some are more racially inclined towards African and Native cultures (Cuba, Brazil, Puerto Rico, Mexico). Having said that, I have noticed there is a sort of "gringo" stock character that is quite prevalent in Latin-American produced films and television. Usually, this character is a man, American, slightly effeminate and oblivious to Latin-American culture. I think the general view, of some Latin women towards Anglo-American guys, is that "white guys" may be less romantic and sexually suasive than Latin or black men -- remember, being macho and cocky is almost a male requisite in some Latino countries! I've spoken to both my sisters and they seem to hold black men as the ideal exemplification of masculine potency (again, this comes from centuries of African slave trading in North and South America). Now, if you were to ask ME personally -- a smart, nerdy, socially conscious Hispanic-American -- I would tell you that it doesn't matter who you are or where you come from, as long as you make me laugh and enjoy late night pizza and Netflix. There are plenty of Latina girls who feel the exact same way as I do!
I cannot speak for everybody, but in my case it is not true. I am attracted to white and Asian guys but I feel like white guys don't find me attractive. I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. Let me give you an example. This weekend I went clubbing with my Asian (who I shall refer as to Una) friend and half Asian/half latina (Dos) friend. Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. The club was having a Peruvian night and half was latino and half whites (no other Asians there), 8 out of 12 guys that approached Una were white, the rest latino. All the guys that approached Dos and I were latino. We noticed a couple of white guys just hanging around and watching people on the dance floor but they only stared a bit then looked away when we smiled at them. So maybe the reason you see latina girls with other latinos isn't because we ONLY like them, but mostly because they are usually the ones who ask us out. I guess our mentality is different, white girls aren't afraid to ask a guy out and neither am I, however my -or rather OUR- mommas taught us that if someone really likes you then he will take the initiative and ask you out. Which is how we end up with latinos because white boys seem indecisive and like they would rather wait for us to make a move. Does that make sense?
When I was in junior high and high school, I was approached by a few beautiful Mexican girls, who propositioned me and I was so stupid because my self confidence must have been low because I thought it was too good to be true and that I was being trolled, so I declined. I still kick myself to this day over that. Ever since then, I had pursued many of them, but every single Latina that I have encountered has always been either married or in a committed relationship already. Most of the ones I have met had started early with settling down and remain so for long into the foreseeable future. I don't want to step on anyone's toes, so I let them be. I have no idea where one would go to meet available Latinas, as even the ones I have met at clubs are not available and are there just to drink with their friends and/or dance. Any white man who doesn't respond to flirting from a Latina- I can pretty much guarantee that he is intimidated by the sheer radiating beauty that can only be found among Latina women. And that is not just appearance- almost all Latinas I have met have the sexiest personalities to go with it.
I don't think that's true at all. Of course I'm not a latina women, but I don't think they have anything against white guys. We all tend to hang out with people similar to ourselves, and date people similar to ourselves, so there will be a lot of latina women with latino men. No different than white guys with white girls though.
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Look man, I'm as white as they come. Look at me! lol But I can honestly say I've only dated a handful of white women in my life. And I'm not bragging when I say this, but I've dated a lot of women (being in the military, I'd attribute this to a lot of my luck). Most of those women, though, have been Latina. Love 'em! Love their fire, love their passion; hell, I even love their jealousy. I was also raised in a predominantly Hispanic neighborhood, so this is what I mostly know. In fact, when I first dated a white woman, it was weird. I tried a few more times, but it just wasn't for me. I know, I know... a lot what I'm saying are generalizations. But you know what, many of the generalizations the Latina ladies here are making are true, in my opinion. My white friends either seem afraid of Latin women or are afraid of the cultural expectations (it's funny, they are not this way with Asian women). I'm like, let it go... go after her. Be charming, be confident and take what you want! In a matter of speaking, of course. At the same time, many of the Latin ladies need to let go of their preconceived notions about white men; no, we're not all boring, uptight and rigid. And yes, we can learn how to Salsa and speak Spanish. You just gotta teach us, darlin! lol In my case, it's Portuguese and Samba. I married a Brazilian. And quick note: Never call a Brazilian a Hispanic. Latin, OK. Hispanic, no.
I find that in the area where I live, Latina women like white guys. I am a Caucasian American of European descent and I find Latina women to be very attractive. The issue often isn't whether or not they "like" each other. Usually it is the cultural differences that might keep them from ending up together. There are things like what is expected if you are dating, or get married, how your families might interact, and all of that other stuff that has to be taken into consideration. Sometimes it matches well and other times it might not.
I'm like you and I have a strong preference for Latin women. Unfortunately in my experience, I'm going to have to agree with your coworker. I've pursued several in the not too distant past and all of them have come to nothing and I have a strong suspicion that race played a large part in that. In fact, I am absolutely sure of it in one case. Of course, not every Latin women has the same preferences but, from what I've seen, I'd have to say most do. Just as most people of any race prefer to stick to their own. It's unfortunate in many ways, I feel but that's the way of it.
I'm a Latina , parent's origin from mexico , and I have always been fond of Caucasian men. they're so smart, supportive, they allow you to develops into your own person and most importantly they allow you to have your own friendships. I've always dated white men because its just the type I get along with. they're sweet and always super attractive. And most are into trying new things. I've dates one Hispanic and regreted it after 2 years of physical and verbal abuse. Maybe he was just a bad egg.. But that was the initial reason I never wanted to be with a man of my race to begin with.
My best friend is Mexican and her boyfriend is Mexican but mixed with a lot of white (he looks white). Her mom married a white man and her sister dates white men too.
It depends on the girl. Most women prefer their own race though but that doesn't mean you could never go out with a Hispanic woman if that is what you like. I've seen latinas dating white guys and other races too, but I do believe most of them date their men.
However if the Latino coworker you were talking to is a male, you have to realize that many guys do not want men of other races dating 'their' women so sometimes they will tell you discouraging things of women of that race to keep you from dating them.
Hi! I'm from México.
I guess is by both sides, i mean latin girls think white guys are not interested in latin girls and white boys think latin girls are not interested in them.
I like white guys but id think to much being in a formal relationship because it's well known the perception people have about latin girls (think are hot and that kind of stuff) some of those girls may feel used. If you're really into it just try it and if you get to know some latin girl who worth it let her know about what you want and what you think, good luck!
Of course not all latina women are like that. it varies. But as for me and where I'm from, being Latina myself, I'm only into Latino men. There are many advantages to this, they speak spanish like me and their culture and the way they were raised are very similar. (if not the same) while white guys are completely different, with different values and perspectives compared to the Latino culture.
thats just my opinion, I've never considered dating a white guy.
That's not true at all. It depends on your personality, I am atypical for a white guy so I dated quite a few latinas and they are just people. sexy people.;-). You need to understand that family is important to many of them and their families are usually pretty big. I like those gatherings though, they drink and have fun. It is like a big party. Who doesn't like that.
That's dumb lol you can't possibly believe such a generalization? Some latinas might like white guys and some might not, just as with any other race. My mom is Hispanic and married my dad, a white guy. That would make me part Hispanic and I tend to find Hispanic and black guys more attractive. My Hispanic cousins though all like white men more. It just depends.
I'm white male (from new Zealand) and my partner of 5 years is Latina, Chileana. Before her I dated a attractive Mexican girl, and before that Colombian Morena. They like white men, I feel because of American cultural (Hollywood, TV) for one, and for two, because if thier colonial ties to Europe. They especially like Nordic types, because of the novelty of appearance. I'm not sure what it is like in USA, but I imagine they stick to thier own more and are thus harder to approach? In Toronto Canada where I lived for a time, I worked in a Large office composed of mainly blacks and Hispanics. Some Hispanic woman actively pursued me, I think they found my accent sexy, with others I shared sultry glances. I left the job and got a better one but I'm sure I could dated a few, no problem.
I've seen this YouTube video from buzzfeed about how white guys are the most sought after so maybe you should approach them latinas you like. I've heard of bad things about different races and to be honest i think they are just perspectives not fact anybody can be with anybody. and yeah you might run into one that doesn like you but it would be some kind of coincidence not because of your race.
Hey, I was wondering the same thing, obviously in the opposite side. The thing is, not all Latinos are the same, I'm Latina woman and I don't like salsa, cumbia or ranchera (music genre) I like rock, bring this to the table because is the same with everything, is all about what the people like, not from where the people are. I like white guys more than Latinos (really more), actually right now I have a crush with a coworker and he is white but here is the problem, I wasn't born here and I feel weird trying to dating him because some white people can be mean (return to the same point, not all the people are the same) some people can think I wanna date him because I need a greencard and is not my situation, some also try to make fun about our accent. So probably some Latino woman can feel attracted to you but also feel ashamed, just try to be nice and let her know you are not that kind of man who treats people like shit because their ethnicity
Sorry buddy. hate to break It to you but no Latina women like white men. Simply because they aren't attracted to them. Physically, AND due to all the stereotypes of whites being stuck up and full of themselves and that they think they're better than every other race. Coming from a white man as myself, I know this is upsetting. Especially because I'm heavily into Latinas as well. Unfortunately throughout history we've established some of these names for ourselves and for all the hill billy rednecks who ruined it for all of us. Incase you haven't noticed, they're predominantly into either their own Hispanic race, or blacks.
It varies from person to person. I am latina and I only date white boys. The simple fact is that I'm not sexually attracted to any other race. When I ask my other latina friends their opinion in men, they find white men attractive too but it can be difficult to date outside your race and will many times gravitate towards latino counterparts. It can be hard to break "boundaries."
Im 3/4 latina and it is true for me. Its just my preference though, I think maybe other Latino women can like white men and I don't just not go out with white men but I rarely find one that I'm interested in. I don't limit myself to latino men either I actually like variety lol
Answering this because I am bored. But as a Latina woman... I would say don't generalize. Some do and some don't it's an individual thing. Quit being a wus and grow up. Get in touch with your alfpha side. If you like a girl ask her out and don't rely on some dudes opinion. He can't possibly know what all women of certain group like. I did not marry a Latino. However, I did not choose him based on his race, I was attracted to him physically and his values and morals etc. So you'll never know unless you try. If a chick is narrow minded enough not to like you based on your race then move on she's not worth you time.
My dad is Puerto Rican and my mom is of Italian/Irish ancestry. Personally I have had bad experiences with white men since I get the feeling that a) most of them (black men as well) are looking to get into your pants and that's it, in other words think that Pretty much every Hispanic woman is super easy b) I get the feeling that most white men if they date outside their race is usually an Asian women and c) Even though my mother is white I am closer to my dad's side and I CANNOT be with someone that doesn't appreciate Hispanic culture and by that I DONT mean the Urban Crap from NYC.
Well, I am half Latina, from Cali, and from my experience with white men, they are kind of racist, and only seem to date white girls (with the exception of white guys who date Asians only) anyway yeah thats why I prefer black men, and Asian men, especially black guys <3 I'd never date a white guy. i mean sure there are attractive white guys but I'd rather stay away from them. Until I meet one who isn't a total douche I'll consider it.
We like white guys too, you just have to keep it interesting, make her laugh, compliment her, treat her like a gentleman and hopefuly know how to dance
I'm 100 Salvadorean. Yes I'm hispanic. I love white guys. Always have. They're awesome. Been dating one for years (: White guys attract me. Not really into Hispanics.
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