Hello! I really like a boy from my class, we became close relatively quickly and we talk about relationships, but the problem is that he has a gf…?

[Anonymous]

…the main topic we discuss is a boy who i like and he knows this and since he is friends with him he always finds ways to talk about him. when he likes someone he tells me but never tell me who is that person. in general we only talk when he sits next to me in class but the general teases me about that boy

[_Maya_]

Okay and? What is the question you are asking? Is the guy you like the one with the relaitonship? The way things are worded are kinda confusing. From what I gather is that you have this close friend (that has a girlfriend) and you talk to him about this other guy that you like. Is that correct? If so then there isn't anything wrong with talking to someone about relationships as long as you aren't messing with theirs. Now if the guy you like is the one in the relationship then just stop. You don't want to be that girl known for meddling in people's relationships. That is not a good reputation to have. Feel free to correct me if I am not understanding the situation.

[DoggyDude]

Here is my advice. Imagine you where his girlfriend, how would you feel if his current girlfriend was doing what your doing with her boyfriend? If you would be fine with that, then you should continue as you find it. Though if you feel that someone doing that to your boyfriend would be underhanded or something, maybe reconsider your position.

At the end of the day your young and you have lots of time to figure out where your at. I'd say, generally speaking, look for someone single rather than mess with another girls boyfriend (especially if your uncertain about how you feel in that quarter)

[boggboss]

So what are we asking here

u are pursuing a guy thats in a relationship

[Iron_Man]

Keep talking to him and find out who do you like how old are you guys

[Nikki1989]

And so what is your question?