Girls, Do you think society has unfair expectations on men acting like “men”?

[Anonymous]

Like not crying, or talking about our emotions

[Anonymous]

Society has even much more expectations from a woman that she should be perfect in everything, she should be good in cooking as well as she could be good wife, she should not be intimidating others men (while it's not in her control) she should never be "irresponsible" in handling her family and household so even when she is ill she has to cook. She have to do multitasking to fulfill all the needs of husband child family parents as well as socity and any single mistake questions her ability. Husband children socity parents all tell their demands to her and she is expected to fulfill all of them in that same 24 hrs time which is limited to everyone.

[Asker]

Yes that is true as well, but in sports guys are expected to tough out injuries and not be a baby

[Opinion Owner]

Society is unfair to all. Just there is difference in levels.

[Asker]

Do you watch sports or play?

[Opinion Owner]

I agree men are expected to be tough and female are expected to be perfect a child is expected to be obedient and a person in general is expected to follow the trend same as society is running

[Opinion Owner]

I do watch sports I'm not good at playing

[Asker]

I got hurt playing college soccer and am worried the girls will think I’m not as manly

[Opinion Owner]

Oho don't worry about it. You know what's more easy but most effective thing? The confidence. If you are confidently carrying your mistakes over your shoulder even you are manly.

[Asker]

Yeah but it was a rather embarrassing injury since I got hit in the man parts

[Opinion Owner]

I know a man who got hurt similar to you during his clg days but he didn't show it out after that he became most popular among group considering most manly

[Asker]

What happened to him?

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing he is hero among his group

[Asker]

But I mean did he get hit by a ball?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes dear he got hit by ball only. But actually he didn't show his pain out.

[Asker]

Do women think guys are wimps when they get hit in the balls?

[Opinion Owner]

No absolutely not. They are human only we consider them as same.

[Asker]

But the balls are our manliest area!

[Opinion Owner]

After that how he act how he handles situation, that matters that's more attractive that shows how manly he is

[Opinion Owner]

So what? That's not how we think. That's society thought that it made some body parts as sign of "manly"

[Asker]

Have you ever hit a guy there

[Opinion Owner]

No. Never

[msmissydc]

Yes absolutly! But when women agree with it and try to talk about it, they are called cancerous femininist and other slurs. So as long as men are not working on it by themselve or ask for help it stays their problem. I am Tired of arguing with stupid people.

[laly520]

yes n same goes for women

[Asker]

Do you think guys in sports should be tough and manly?

[laly520]

they should be good in whatever sports they r doing

[Asker]

I was playing soccer and got hit in the balls, I’m embarrassed because I fell to the ground in pain which probably didn’t look very manly

[laly520]

thats normal u dont have to feel embarrassed about it

[Asker]

Don’t women expect guys to take that like a man?

[laly520]

duh
ofc not

[Asker]

Why do you say that? I thought women liked when guys are tough and manly

[laly520]

we do but we aren't that cruel

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[laly520]

means we ain't crazy to be judging a guy just cuz he got hurt n felt pain
we r aware its sensitive down there n painful
whats so hard about that, I think u need to get a reality check u clearly having lot of wrong ideas going on

[Asker]

Then why do girls laugh?

[laly520]

u r around sick girls

[Agape93]

Yeah

[butterly248]

Yes.

[Asker]

Do you think guys need to be tough and manly when it comes to sports,

[butterly248]

Nope

[Asker]

Good that makes me feel better, I got hurt playing soccer and it happened in front of a girl I like so I was embarrassed she’ll think I’m not as manly

[butterly248]

If she does then she isn't the right girl for you