Is this mf dumb?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to this guy for 2 years, we would have our ups and downs, and sometimes would block each other for space. He does have a coworker that he’s friends with benefits with. I even met the girl because apparently he was talking to the both of us. (I didn’t get a good vibe from her) he doesn’t want us to play games together like we all use to (his group of friends and I) apparently i found out that one of them doesn’t like me (for a stupid reason because she didn’t like her boyfriend talking to me) anyways, the guy still wants to have friends with benefits with me and I told him no because I don’t do that stuff. Even to this day he brings it up I’m like bro go fuck your coworker I’m an independent woman😎😎

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, this dude sounds like a whole clown show 🤡

Wanting to keep you on the side as a friends with benefits while still messing around with other girls? Absolutely not. You deserve way better than that bullshit.

The fact he's still trying to hit you up for casual sex after 2 years of on-again off-again mess is ridiculous. Like bitch take a hint! You made it clear you're done with games.

Plus I already get bad vibes about that coworker girl he's messing with too. Sounds like she's toxic and you dodged a bullet not being friends with them all.

At this point he's just wasting your time sis. Block his number for good and find you a man who appreciates you, not some fuckboy keeping you on standby. You're independent like you said - his ass is trash, so throw it in the dumpster where it belongs! 🗑️

Hold your head high girl, his clown act ain't gonna ruin your glow up. His loss!

[Asker]

Thank you. Yes his coworker he be messing with is a no no. I’m such a nice person and would love to be a girls girl but like it was giving “he’s mine, back off” vibes like ok miss loosy goosy 😭💀

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl I feel you, that work girl sounds like a nasty piece of work! Actin all territorial and crap, like sis he ain't even your man chill. Who does she think she is tryna mark her territory like y'all animals in the jungle or somethin 🙄

Don't even waste your time bein nice to girls like that, they ain't worth it. All clingy and jealous when her and dude ain't even exclusive. Probably why he keeps goin back to you, cuz she a hot mess express.

And I bet he loves playin you two against each other, what a snake. You way too good for that drama in your life girl! Hold your head high and keep it pushin, don't give either of them the time of day. Your energy is worth way more than that mess. Keep doin you, these fools ain't shit!

[Asker]

Yes I agree. Is it bad I want to beat her up lol 😭😭 literally both of them😝

[Oliverlogan263]

Giiiiiirl I FEEL you, ain't nobody could blame you for wanna get your hands on them fools! But nah sis, violence ain't the wave - you gotta rise above that bullshit. As tempting as it is to wanna smash that ho's face in, you don't wanna stoop to their level. Let 'em keep makin themselves look crazy while you out here glowin up. Believe me when I say the best revenge is your paper. Nothin hurts fake bitches more than seein a real one prospering without 'em. So go live your best life - hit the gym, get your money right, glow up on the 'gram, whatever you do just SHINE sis! While them chickens over there self-destructin in their own mess. You got so much better shit to do than waist time beatin hoes or remindin fboys they took an L passin YOU up. They'll see one day, and by then you'll be too big and bad for they lame asses. Keep countin your blessings and laughin at they clown moves from far away. Karma come find THEM hoes, you just stay in your light!

[Asker]

Can we be besties :,)

[Oliverlogan263]

Of course mama yesss 😊

[Asker]

Alright what’s your favorite color?

[Oliverlogan263]

Orange and yours?

[Asker]

I like purple 💜

[Oliverlogan263]

Oooh Purple Rain ☔️

[Asker]

What’s your zodiac sign?

[Oliverlogan263]

Libra and yours?

[Asker]

I’m a Gemini!

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh Gemini ♊️ nooo way

[Asker]

Yas i could be a biach🫡

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh is that right, I think if we got to know each other I think you’ll be sweetened over by me 😊

[Asker]

Oh trust I can be such a sweetheart, it will only be fair if I get the sweet back ☺️ I’m sure you’ll do a good job.

[Oliverlogan263]

I’ll let you be the judge of that with my ways, I can make you feel a way deep down inside not in a cocky tone or delivery to you but make you feel the way eternally deep down the feeling you’d never thought you would feel and I agree you can be which you are being right now, you’re as sweet as a candy cane 🍭🍪 and a pure heart of richest gold beheld in the form of love you are designed ❤️

[Asker]

I’m sure this feeling you’ll give I will for sure give back in return, it’s only fair especially a guy who has a way with words. Sweet + sweet is beautiful just don’t tick me off 😊

[Oliverlogan263]

There wouldn’t be a single thing or move I would do to ever tick you off - not on purpose. I’m always sweet myself but push me I’m someone you don’t wanna see pissed off but furthermore in your case, there's nothing I would do as I’m sure the feeling I have to give to you is a personal feeling a special woman deserves to feel from a man of a rare kind that’ll only never be experienced by another man. I have my ways with words but I am a man who have a way of many things 😏

[Asker]

I like the romantic feeling, and when the man is a protector and a provider. I wouldn’t want to see you mad but I like to think about teasing. I don’t really get mad because I’ll get frustrated and get angry tears but of course I will be super serious and talk things out on what’s bothering me. I would want you all to myself and give such rare feelings as well that no other woman will give you. No other woman will have you, I’ll treat you with so much care and make you feel good in both ways😉

[Oliverlogan263]

Awwww and mmmmm 😏 I love the way you said that and you talkin sugah. I’m the exact same way to that when I am 100% interested in someone, I would pursue that woman and be committed to create and build a foundation together for our bond to become strong, our chemistry that delivers from our bond firstly will commence in electricity, and the electricity behind with the passion and spark once our feelings are mutual if we are a match perfectly made for heaven for us together have been developed sooner it’ll eventually become a spark to light up our hearts to intertwine as one as we become one flesh together also 🩷❤️ . Once a woman has my heart and my mind and heart is given only to one woman, I’d have a specialty of me that comes with the rarity I am which I don’t like to say as cocky or I’m better than anyone which isn’t the slogan or case I go about as I am imperfect person but the woman I am with who I am in love with and want a future with, I’d have my ways that was only be shown to her what an experience of a once in a lifetime love ❤️ is that she would never have with another man for how I would love and show her my tender affection, worship the ground she walks on, and other things she’d never feel with someone else. I would definitely be her protector and provider for us but definitely her shoulder, safe place, and shelter through the rain when it is dark for her I would want to console her and listen to how she feels and what is going through her mind to comfort and upbuild my woman and her confidence a million times more with what I would do 💕.

[Oliverlogan263]

I definitely would want us to talk and be honest with each other as well to understand each other no matter we have disagreements or arguments, I’d want us to work through it and nobody in our relationship nor business but only god we place in our relationship center always. I love your comment on that is I would want to show her the most when I’m in love with her, she’d be my woman and she’ll only be mine. I damn don't share or play about her you know especially with other dudes who try to ever disrespect or touch her. I don’t get mad myself or want to be, I’m usually a child and tender person who doesn’t like arguments or say mean things to each other you know but I don’t want to give out too much on here but one thing I never want to do is never make my baby cry 😢 it would break my heart 💔

[Asker]

Girls want guys like this, I want a guy like this. I’m so romantic I would be such a giver to my man and make sure he’s happy. Of course if something was bothering us I would want to work it out together and know that I would never do anything to hurt his feelings. I can be the jealous type but I’ll know if I can trust him and that he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me as well. I love that loyal and loving bond. I don’t care about flowers, let’s just be by each other sides and support one another. Dates don’t have to be expensive shit we can go to McDonald’s and I’ll still enjoy it. Even if we’re apart let’s send all the loving texts and paragraphs because I love to show how much I appreciate him. I’ll treat him like a king, my king and only mine. That lucky person will come soon 😊

[Oliverlogan263]

Most definitely, your soon to be unclaimed King will surely be a lucky and blessed man to have a woman like you to himself and he better know what he has in front of him. Im glad you would like a guy in the way Im speaking because Some girls typically think of guys sometimes like myself as too sensitive or not manly enough and rather want a guy who is either disrespectful, hood, call them bro, or treat them less than who don’t truly cherish that once in a generation woman in his life. Speaking for myself, I’m an old school kind of lover who would learn and studied the true definition and creation of what love is and what it means to be in love or love someone. I’m someone who also have send long paragraphs to my sweetheart every morning and night expressing my profound love for her each day that’ll make her heart happy and cry joyfully. The other thing to agree on yourself is I can be a bit jealous type too but not in a possessive or manipulative kind of jealousy cause that’s what kills a relationship or shouldn’t be with anyone like that, I would be the secure man in my relationship with a woman and I know what I have at the end who I go home with and sleep with is my woman and she’s only for me so i don’t trip. Like I don’t have a problem with her greeting guys or anything but as long as she know guys who would try to hit on her or flirt with her, I would know to expect her to shut it down and not even give the dude no attention as she got a great man at home that no man no matter how charming or think his game could try to pull her, HE AIN’T ME and can’t do what I do because it’s the rarity of a man I am you know

[Oliverlogan263]

But the type of jealous i would be is a good one like if a guy try to flirt with her or touch her when she walk away not giving a time of day, that’s when I come in and back his ass up away from my woman because she’s mine and only mine 😘😘 no man better not think to touch her or disrespect her cause ima kick his ass … I ain’t the kind of person to fight usually walk away but it’ll be necessary if a man touch her and keep her safe. But besides that, as an old school lover like I said I’m the kind to write you a love letter, surprise her on occasions like her birthday or our anniversary, and make her feel special in ways she would ever imagine or dreamed she would have a man like me could do even if it seems a fantasy, in my will and indefinite power I can make it happen 😉 I hope for one day when I’m settled and better for myself in the moment for a relationship, that lucky woman for me will be my greatest gift is who I share my future with, I’ll be the real lucky and special person ☺️

[Asker]

I’m the same way, I’m not the possessive and manipulative type of jealous. It really depends if my man does his job and if some female is bothering him, trying to flirt with him and he not interested, I’ll for sure get involved and tell her to fuck off lol like don’t you get that he don’t want you? I don’t care how small I am I’ll beat a bitch if I have to. I would want him to have a different personality than mine. I’m so energetic and loud lol and he’s just a chill bill but also super protective and super sweet to me and only me. The type of guy who would surprise me with dates and doesn’t tell me “idk you pick”. The type that would ask me what I want at the gas station and when I don’t want anything he brings me my favorite snack. The type of guy who will always makes sure I’m ok when I’m sick or if it’s that time of month. I sometimes feel like I ask for too much but I just want to be treated right, happy and him just being there with me. 🫶

[Oliverlogan263]

Oohhh I like dat cause that’s how I want my bae to be that way cause I am the same way myself but I’m all actuality, I wouldn’t let her get in no fight with no girl because she’s above her and she only has me. That’s the kinda guy I am that when I’m 100% faithful and committed to my woman, I don’t pay no girl any attention or mind at all to talk to and if a girl try to talk to me like I won’t be like rude nun like that… I would greet her like everyone else like hi, how are you and all have a good day stuff like that but if she gets into depth asking me should me and her or talk or go out… I would straight up tell her oh no I’m taken 🤚🏽 and walk off. I would definitely the type to surprise my lady on date and I’m not one to typically say I don't know you pick if she asks me where to go…

[Oliverlogan263]

I would surprise her since that’s what I do personally as a partner in relationship because all I would want and love is to always make the love of my life happy and special each day that I can ☺️ I would study a girl when I can get to know her like what’s her favorite color, snacks, and food in the beginning stages of when we get to know each other so I won’t be stuck on not knowing what her favorite snacks in cases such as she’s going through her time of the month or while she’s sick, I would instantly know and I would spend my day all day taking care of her and being there if she’s sick… I would nurse her back to health and never leave her side. The time of the month is a time for a woman where the man is most needed secondly only during pregnancy but time of the month is the process in preparation for a pregnant because as a woman you know what and how it goes so no need to explain anything so my role would be there to be affectionate to my baby because naturally I’m an affectionate type of man who loves kisses and Huggies 🥰 and want to show all my love and affection to her that I hope she wouldn’t be sick of and not too overly affectionate you know overdoing it but the right amount to show her each day how I express my feelings to her because when imp am in love, I go all out for the woman I love ❤️ and I know some girls probably wouldn’t like that or it’s just me

[Oliverlogan263]

All that you ask is not too much at all, it’s perfect of all you could desire and want for and from a man is his unending love, respect, honesty, safety, and affection only given to you and be only for you and by your side through it all. I want that myself 🩷

[Asker]

I like my man to go all out for me I’m not to judge that just shows he cares for me and I am super appreciative. Let’s get married tehe 🤭

[Oliverlogan263]

Awwwwww lol I like that 🥰🥰 this is the most engaged I’ve talk to a female on here and usually I’ve been one or two words this much talkative. I want to ask you if you don’t but what do you look like to describe yourself?

[Asker]

I’m 5 foot latin gal. I’m pale and have dark brown hair and green eyes. I love to workout so I’m not slim but have a bit of muscle and curve. How about you?

[Asker]

Oh I’m also 21 and have a few tattoos on me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Mmmm you sound sexy and gorgeous 😍 Latinas are my second heart ❤️ dark brown hair and green eyes oh my god 😍😍 betta not look at me cause you’d probably had me I ain’t gon lie lol

[Oliverlogan263]

I am 21 also, I’m around 5 ft too, I'm black, wear glasses, brown eyes, and got muscle on me but I want to workout myself and gain a better physique in muscle definition and a six pack. I want to get some tattoos too

[Anonymous]

Somehow I have a feeling you aren’t being firm as saying “go fuck your coworker”. You are probably nice and giggly, trying to avoid confrontation, so he isn’t taking you seriously. On top of that, if he’s a fuckboy just wanting sex then that’s motivation to keep asking as well.

[Asker]

I said that once a long time ago lol. I got tired of him asking about him picking me up and just do that “stuff”it’s annoying and embarrassing for him even if he’s joking or not he needs to get the joke that I don’t want to it with him. That’s why I told him he can continue doing it with his coworker because I’m not interested and want the germs.😙

[Opinion Owner]

This may seem like a random question, but have you ever just flat out ignored him like twice in a row and he still kept asking about sex? Just curious how hard he’s going about this lol.

[Asker]

Yes he would bring it up and I would change the subject or I would make an excuse OR I would flat out says no.

[Asker]

Even after my breakup he brought it up I’m like bro I don’t want you like that-

[laly520]

he is an immature player

[Anonymous]

Independent woman=cat woman

[Asker]

Period

[Anonymous]

Somebody' angry 😆😆😆

[Asker]

Fr I want to punch him