My boyfriend went to a staff party and he didn't even let me know his leaving and had his phone off until 6am in the morning?

[Anonymous]

He comes back hungover and shows me all the videos and pictures he took and he said his co-workers flirted with him but he didn't flirt back and then he has this picture with one of the women and another video of the same women dancing up on another women looking straight at him being flirty, he says it's nothing, thoughts?

[IslaTheWitch]

do you trust him or not? If not, just break up and give this man a chance to find a trusting partner

[Asker]

Well not so easy when I have constant reason not to

[IslaTheWitch]

did you ever confirmed anything?

[Asker]

I have yes that's why every little thing makes me second guess that's why I'm asking this

[IslaTheWitch]

so if you confirmed... what are you still doing with him? Life when you constantly control and suspect someone is not a life...

[BarryLiverstone]

I think he went to a party

[Asker]

So going to a party and taking videos of a women grinding up on someone is just going to a party?

[BarryLiverstone]

For your boyfriend it is ya. He should have invited you to go with him if you are his girlfriend. Why didn’t he?

[Asker]

Cause it's a staff party

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you should find someone else.

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

He seems to be dishonest with you and if he doesn't give you the truth then there is no point continuing the relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah true, it's become habit now , so you really think there's more to this?

[Opinion Owner]

No clue, but without honest communication you don't have a good relationship.

[Asker]

I guess yeah