Do you want a man to have masculine traits?

[Anonymous]

A feminist just argued with me online and said all masculine traits by guys are evil, and males should be eradicated on earth

…nice to see we can all live in harmony (sarcasm).

[Violet_78]

That’s just plain stupid

Of course I’d want a man with masculine traits (not saying women can’t have these but I like the following traits in men and I guess some would be considered masculine)

strength, confidence, courage, reliability, protectiveness, leadership, integrity, honour, ambition, resilience and a good sense of humour

[petitedollbabee]

Lol, you didn’t find a feminist, all you found was a misandrist. People seem to have it twisted these days, when it comes to what feminism actually is, and what media makes it out to be.

[Asker]

She said guys who have masculine traits are toxic, her exact words and she said I’m a proud feminist

[petitedollbabee]

What she says she is vs what she actually is are two different things 😆 I could tell you that I’m a unicorn, but we know that isn’t true.

[Asker]

I get that but I don’t tell others feminine qualities is toxic. I think her point of view is masculine traits are toxic because men hurt women, kill women. I told her, listen I don’t condone that disgusting behaviour those men should go to jail for life. But if you strip a man’s or guys masculinity what’s left of him as a guy?

[The_Sexpert]

Who takes modern feminists seriously?

Women are attracted to masculinity and men to femininity , no amount of feminism can change that

[genericname85]

don't listen to the media and the internet. it's designed to feed you extremist views. the "normal" isn't pushed by any algorythm.

[Asker]

The fact that she didn’t think she was a feminist extremist and wanted less men on earth or eradicated is just toxic. I told her to be reassure her from a guys POV that yes men who kill or hurt women should be held accountable and put to jail. But I said you don’t think women abuse their husbands. I’ve dated some girls where I later found out they have deep rooted male issues or daddy issues and I’m not someone’s psychologist. When I was younger I used to think be the good guy, don’t be sexual, listen to her problems be there for her, but all I’m doing is being a tampon. Dating/relationships/marriage is a big joke now. Some girls have told me we don’t vibe with each other — I’ll talk movies, tv shows, politics, world affairs, religion, etc, relationships, genders, so I can talk to women and not feel intimidated but yeah this one girl was friggin whack.

[genericname85]

well the terrorists, fascists and extremists don't typically see themself as that.

[Apple1996]

I guess it depends like a lot of men are naturally controlling and possessive so those negative things I'm not attracted to

[Asker]

Yeah but if I said well feminine behaviour is toxic because women/girls can be naggy and bitchy, I don’t think females would take too kindly to that. Often times I hear girls say to guys, “stop categorizing all girls”. But what I heard from this feminist extremist of all guys are eradicated and she has the gull to say I’m in an incel because guys have a right to defend themselves if a woman hit him…I didn’t know women are allowed to hit men. I blocked her, girls like that I would not look at twice.

[Anonymous]

This is an example of what modern feminism has become, and why I don't support the movement anymore.

[Asker]

She told me girls and women who want masculine traits are sabotaging themselves and are dumb. I thought feminism was about female supporting other females. She seemed very sweet in the beginning but when she asked me my views on stuff I was like 🙄 I didn’t want to get into them. I know talking about religion, politics, social issues and ideologies may be a turn off to some people but it made me realize who she was.

[Anonymous]

There are no shortage of stupid people on the internet.